SammyD242 Member

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  • Nope. I was genuinely hoping for help from you folks, to get a helpful perspective for myself or a way to help my family be supportive. Quite a few people responded that they've also struggled with family who make this fight more difficult than it has to be. I know I'm not alone. That makes a difference.
  • No, he's an asshat. And the resulting stress/depression is visible to all in the weight I've put on. For him, it's a control issue. I didn't plan to mention any of this. But yes, I'm in an abusive relationship that i need to leave. But today I'm working on getting back in charge of ME and looking for support as i take my…
  • For those who commented that they don't see the problem: Im really happy for you that you're surrounded by supportive folks who encourage your efforts. Also that you have fantastic willpower. I have neither of those things. So when I prepare my family a healthy salad with grilled chicken for supper, and my husband snarls…
  • Oh, I say no to the temptations that they throw in my path. And every night I ask them to join me for my walk, and they say no, and then asked me to join them to play cards or watch TV with them. So I go for my walk with my dog. And I make lots of vegetables and salads at every meal, but they will prepare themselves…
  • Outstanding story! The courage to start over again was particularly inspiring!
  • Clap clap clap clap clap!!!! Well done!!
  • You made me laugh while I nodded. I know the feeling, the frustration and self-loathing. And I'm SO proud of you for handling it like a rock star!!
  • My puppy is a Great Pyrenees, 9 months old and 90 lbs. Her breed is known to be very stubborn and hard to train. I take her to our local leash-free dog park. Its 14 acres with hills, shade, a water source, and usually a few other dogs for her to connect with. The perimeter path is exactly 1 km, so I put my headphones on…
  • I'd like to join the group, please.
  • Hi! I started 5 days ago and need a motivational, butt-kicking buddy.
  • I have 50 to lose! Just joined here but have no idea how to "friend" you!
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