Sooothathappened Member

While I had no concrete reason to create this thread, i did. Just got out of a two hour session with my therapist and she applauded me for venting in a respectful, dignified way. I didn't know exactly why I posted on here, but I'm leaving with closure. I'm grateful for the chuckles, the sincere well wishes, the well…

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@newmeadow sex addiction by way of porn and sexting is the diagnosis

@jessiferrrb thank you for the kindness... I suppose I'm fine with just leaving it floating around cyberspace... but I will reach out to a moderater... thanks

@lstrat115 I signed up here when I found out. We've been separated and in therapy ever since.

@SomebodyWakeUpHIcks well I guess it will be here fo a while then

@Cutaway_Collar no offense taken... thank you for the honesty

@Cutaway_Collar if only. The only pot I'm stirring is mine.

One last thing before I have to delete all of this for my mental sanity.... I did message one of the women on here right after I found out... and she called me "hun" while denying everything. I figured she was actually telling me the truth until my husband insisted it was her and she knew he was married cause she told him…

@IVMay thanks for the recommendation... I do appreciate a good dog

@STLBADGIRL that's when I slowly started backing away from the husband

@leanjogreen18 interesting that you say that... when he came clean he kept saying, "but I never cheated on you"

@JeepHair77 your spidey sense is tingling because there's a lot that doesn't add up about all of this.

@Gimsteinn1 I have my moments... here on this message board I feel far enough removed that I can speak rather openly

@ButterballBookworm cheating is such a waste of love. I'm sorry for your friend.

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I'll probably indulge in laying it all out here in this message board for another twenty minutes and then I'll erase everything, delete the MFP app, and resume with good old fashioned therapy. But there has been something oddly eye opening coming here.

@STLBADGIRL there is a lot up in the air right now. We aren't divorced yet. I feel stupid for that, but the reality is it's harder than the movies make it out to be.

@Timshel_ for real

I did see some of the women and "ratchet" comes to mind but of course I'm gonna think that

He did tell me about his KIK act that he did create for sexting purposes... he claims he told me because he wanted to come clean.

@STLBADGIRL I don't know... he swears it was strictly sexting... I guess I'll never know. The trust isn't exactly intact anymore.

He actually came clean about all of this... no spying on my part... I was that clueless....had no idea people actually did that on forums... no offense but I didn't even know forums were still a thing

@IVMay it was inappropriate on many levels

Changed my username cause my old one had my real last name in it... I guess when I changed my username it deactivated something