Husband cheated on me here
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_har_T_Swallow wrote: »Carillon_Campanello wrote: »So, who's your hubby..
This happens all the time... Sadly, or not sadly, people feel ignored at home, or bored and start searching. I can't tell you how many dick pics I have gotten from men here... There have been numerous physical affairs, so hopefully, your hubby didn't got that far in all of this...
I'm trying to think if I've chatted with anyone from Booth, TX...
You have given them other contact information then because from what I have seen on MFP you can't DM/PM/IM pictures. It's either in a forum, group, or posted to a wall. Sooooooo be selective with who you hand your information out to?
can if you embed them directly in the message
I don't know possibly. This is going to sound really judgy but IDGAF, this guy is sending his weiner shot to multiple women over the internet. I'm not sure embedding images into MFP messages is exactly at his level.5 -
@Gimsteinn1 I have my moments... here on this message board I feel far enough removed that I can speak rather openly0
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My apologies, just trying to share what I have on hand. The triscuits are fig & honey flavored, if that makes a difference. You know, all fancy like.
OP, so sorry you are going through this, I see the flirting all the time on here, it just seems to be part and parcel of people becoming more mainstream physically attractive and confident after losing weight.1 -
sorry to hear this
that seems to be "the norm" around here. 0 -
JeepHair77 wrote: »I'm so sorry. And I mean that without any snark, seriously.
Having said that - something about this story isn't quite adding up. I'm not sure why, but my spidey sense is tingling.
Cos you're on mfp... nothing is ever what it seems... :laugh:4 -
Sooothathappened wrote: »@Carillon_Campanello yes... infamous Seven Year Itch?
One possibility. Yes. It's notorious for a reason.0 -
Maybe the best piece of advice MFP can give is "don't eat your feelings".
It isn't your failing when another adult chooses to act selfishly. 3 -
He also sent me nudes14
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@JeepHair77 your spidey sense is tingling because there's a lot that doesn't add up about all of this.1
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_har_T_Swallow wrote: »Sooothathappened wrote: »@_har_T_Swallow thank you for that... I truly don't know what I could have done differently
i've cheated before. i know what led me to it. like even if i had a million bucks in the bank, huge house, acreage, 5 new cars, "love you babe" text every morning on my way to work- none of that would have stopped it from happening. because it was me. i probably would've ended up doing it even if we lived in a cardboard box.
nothing you could've done would've prevented it i bet. it sucks to say that, but life sucks sometimes.
This is kind of true for a lot of people.5 -
_har_T_Swallow wrote: »Sooothathappened wrote: »@_har_T_Swallow thank you for that... I truly don't know what I could have done differently
i've cheated before. i know what led me to it. like even if i had a million bucks in the bank, huge house, acreage, 5 new cars, "love you babe" text every morning on my way to work- none of that would have stopped it from happening. because it was me. i probably would've ended up doing it even if we lived in a cardboard box.
nothing you could've done would've prevented it i bet. it sucks to say that, but life sucks sometimes.
This is real talk. And I am happy that you took ownership.12 -
_har_T_Swallow wrote: »Sooothathappened wrote: »@_har_T_Swallow thank you for that... I truly don't know what I could have done differently
i've cheated before. i know what led me to it. like even if i had a million bucks in the bank, huge house, acreage, 5 new cars, "love you babe" text every morning on my way to work- none of that would have stopped it from happening. because it was me. i probably would've ended up doing it even if we lived in a cardboard box.
nothing you could've done would've prevented it i bet. it sucks to say that, but life sucks sometimes.
Are you the hubby??? lmaooooo8 -
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Sooothathappened wrote: »We were definitely together.
It's crazy.
Man cheats on wife via MFP and KIK. So creepy and gross.
What's even crazier to me is we're young-ish, we're both attractive, we're "successful", and I loved him.
It all came as such a shock.
He said those women gave him "affirmation."
I don't understand why my affirmation wasn't enough.
I think its important to have a conversation about "cheating" not everyone has the same definition.
He may think what he did was naughty, possibly hurtful to you but not cheating.
As for the second point I bolded...often times it's not about you at all.
Best wishes in whatever happens!3 -
@leanjogreen18 interesting that you say that... when he came clean he kept saying, "but I never cheated on you"1
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Sooothathappened wrote: »@leanjogreen18 interesting that you say that... when he came clean he kept saying, "but I never cheated on you"
Why did he have to come clean then? He is FOS!5 -
I was just in the mood for some flirting, kik'ing and DP viewing. But I'm not in the mood now after reading this. Think I'll just go to bed with a good book.7
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Being a slimeball is cheating. Guy was basically being a pervert and encouraging nudes/sexting or whatever to women online whilst being married - time he could have been spending with his wife to iron out any problems or insecurities or possibly time seeing a professional about his problems and issues - she would have respected him more for trying to deal with things as an adult rather than a sex-obsessed teenager.8
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friction_thighs wrote: »I was just in the mood for some flirting, kik'ing and DP viewing. But I'm not in the mood now after reading this. Think I'll just go to bed with a good book.
Heh. Well put.0 -
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I know many..... that have done this... and yes... on here. marriages are done!0
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@STLBADGIRL that's when I slowly started backing away from the husband2
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Sooothathappened wrote: »Apparently he shared pics and videos with any woman who was willing. So that happened.
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May I recommend that you invest in a Labrador as a replacement. They are great therapy dogs, also. Loyalty assured
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@IVMay thanks for the recommendation... I do appreciate a good dog0
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One last thing before I have to delete all of this for my mental sanity....
I did message one of the women on here right after I found out... and she called me "hun" while denying everything. I figured she was actually telling me the truth until my husband insisted it was her and she knew he was married cause she told him she was married, too. So I told her as a courtesy I wanted her to know that I was going to tell her husband. She deleted her acct after that.
I felt guilty for going there but it did give me a little satisfaction.17 -
May I recommend that you invest in a Labrador as a replacement. They are great therapy dogs, also. Loyalty assured
I don't know about that dude.... I had a labrador..... it f$%&ed everything in sight...... even Mr Teddikens, my cuddly toy I had since I was 4 years old..... I'm guessing this hubby didn't go that far?8
This world does not value marriage anymore.
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