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Husband cheated on me here



  • Sooothathappened
    Sooothathappened Posts: 38 Member
    @JeepHair77 your spidey sense is tingling because there's a lot that doesn't add up about all of this.
  • leanjogreen18
    leanjogreen18 Posts: 2,492 Member
    We were definitely together.
    It's crazy.
    Man cheats on wife via MFP and KIK. So creepy and gross.
    What's even crazier to me is we're young-ish, we're both attractive, we're "successful", and I loved him.
    It all came as such a shock.
    He said those women gave him "affirmation."
    I don't understand why my affirmation wasn't enough.

    I think its important to have a conversation about "cheating" not everyone has the same definition.
    He may think what he did was naughty, possibly hurtful to you but not cheating.

    As for the second point I bolded...often times it's not about you at all.

    Best wishes in whatever happens!
  • Sooothathappened
    Sooothathappened Posts: 38 Member
    @leanjogreen18 interesting that you say that... when he came clean he kept saying, "but I never cheated on you"
  • IVMay
    IVMay Posts: 442 Member
    I was just in the mood for some flirting, kik'ing and DP viewing. But I'm not in the mood now after reading this. Think I'll just go to bed with a good book.

    Heh. Well put.
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,488 Member
    I know many..... that have done this... and yes... on here. marriages are done!
  • Sooothathappened
    Sooothathappened Posts: 38 Member
    @STLBADGIRL that's when I slowly started backing away from the husband
  • FatOldManMN
    FatOldManMN Posts: 1,116 Member
    Apparently he shared pics and videos with any woman who was willing. So that happened.

  • Sooothathappened
    Sooothathappened Posts: 38 Member
    @IVMay thanks for the recommendation... I do appreciate a good dog
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