Husband cheated on me here
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I'll probably indulge in laying it all out here in this message board for another twenty minutes and then I'll erase everything, delete the MFP app, and resume with good old fashioned therapy. But there has been something oddly eye opening coming here.6
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i can imagine that it would be cathartic in some way. i'm really sorry that this happened to you.0
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Sooothathappened wrote: »I'll probably indulge in laying it all out here in this message board for another twenty minutes and then I'll erase everything, delete the MFP app, and resume with good old fashioned therapy. But there has been something oddly eye opening coming here.
I know - definite lack of labrador theme layouts and pictures of lab puppies as icons etc. Place could do with some sprucing up.
Were you together while he was doing this? Someone just asked if you were already separated etc?0 -
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@STLBADGIRL wrote: »what is KIK? Do I need it?
Only if you want to take the flirting to the next level.0 -
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SomebodyWakeUpHIcks wrote: »
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So, who's your hubby..
This happens all the time... Sadly, or not sadly, people feel ignored at home, or bored and start searching. I can't tell you how many dick pics I have gotten from men here... There have been numerous physical affairs, so hopefully, your hubby didn't got that far in all of this...
I'm trying to think if I've chatted with anyone from Booth, TX...
You have given them other contact information then because from what I have seen on MFP you can't DM/PM/IM pictures. It's either in a forum, group, or posted to a wall. Sooooooo be selective with who you hand your information out to?
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I wonder the same thing.STLBADGIRL wrote: »what is KIK? Do I need it?
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Sooothathappened wrote: »We were definitely together.
It's crazy.
Man cheats on wife via MFP and KIK. So creepy and gross.
What's even crazier to me is we're young-ish, we're both attractive, we're "successful", and I loved him.
It all came as such a shock.
He said those women gave him "affirmation."
I don't understand why my affirmation wasn't enough.
We had a friend who went through this a few times with her husband. He felt that her affirmation was "dutiful" and that she had to say he was hot because they were married. For him, he had to prove he still "had it" with women other than her. So she "had it" and they're done
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Sooothathappened wrote: »We were definitely together.
It's crazy.
Man cheats on wife via MFP and KIK. So creepy and gross.
What's even crazier to me is we're young-ish, we're both attractive, we're "successful", and I loved him.
It all came as such a shock.
He said those women gave him "affirmation."
I don't understand why my affirmation wasn't enough.
Have you been married for around 7 years? Give or take a year to 18 months?4 -
Sooothathappened wrote: »We were definitely together.
It's crazy.
Man cheats on wife via MFP and KIK. So creepy and gross.
What's even crazier to me is we're young-ish, we're both attractive, we're "successful", and I loved him.
It all came as such a shock.
He said those women gave him "affirmation."
I don't understand why my affirmation wasn't enough.
He has self esteem issues. Obviously.3 -
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I know there are a few jokes...but I do feel for you. I really hate that you have to go through this.
Do you have any kids with him? I hope you find the strength to do what is best for you...whether that's walk away, or stay and fully forgive.0 -
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So sorry to hear that
This world does not value marriage anymore.
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Oh wow. So sorry about this. And here I was just about to tell someone to either drink more water, weigh/measure everything, use a weight tracking app, or that ACV isn't a magic potion. Seems pretty insignificant compared to this.11
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ButterballBookworm wrote: »Sooothathappened wrote: »We were definitely together.
It's crazy.
Man cheats on wife via MFP and KIK. So creepy and gross.
What's even crazier to me is we're young-ish, we're both attractive, we're "successful", and I loved him.
It all came as such a shock.
He said those women gave him "affirmation."
I don't understand why my affirmation wasn't enough.
We had a friend who went through this a few times with her husband. He felt that her affirmation was "dutiful" and that she had to say he was hot because they were married. For him, he had to prove he still "had it" with women other than her. So she "had it" and they're done
Any man that needs "affirmation" that he still "has it" must be suffering from low self esteem and you're better off without an a-hole like that.5 -
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OP This most likely had nothing to do with you and everything to do with him. Opportunity plus anonymity is a slippery slope, and there are plenty here who fling themselves down it head first.7
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@ButterballBookworm cheating is such a waste of love. I'm sorry for your friend.3
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I'm so sorry. And I mean that without any snark, seriously.
Having said that - something about this story isn't quite adding up. I'm not sure why, but my spidey sense is tingling.12
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