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Husband cheated on me here

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  • jessiferrrb
    jessiferrrb Posts: 1,758 Member
    i can imagine that it would be cathartic in some way. i'm really sorry that this happened to you.
  • IVMay
    IVMay Posts: 442 Member
    I'll probably indulge in laying it all out here in this message board for another twenty minutes and then I'll erase everything, delete the MFP app, and resume with good old fashioned therapy. But there has been something oddly eye opening coming here.

    I know - definite lack of labrador theme layouts and pictures of lab puppies as icons etc. Place could do with some sprucing up.

    Were you together while he was doing this? Someone just asked if you were already separated etc?
  • Sooothathappened
    Sooothathappened Posts: 38 Member
    edited April 2017
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  • Carillon_Campanello
    Carillon_Campanello Posts: 726 Member
    dawnna76 wrote: »
    OH YAY DRAMA. my midday workday just got better. now I just need some microwave popcorn

    Eff microwave. Go to the movie theater. This thread has legs. It will be here when you get back.
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    what is KIK? Do I need it?

    Only if you want to take the flirting to the next level.
  • IVMay
    IVMay Posts: 442 Member
    @IVMay wrote: »
    SO - the big question..... ?

    They're real and they're spectacular.

    lol
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
    STLBADGIRL wrote: »
    what is KIK? Do I need it?

    XePEOec.gif

    Sounds like something I need to download :blush:
  • nightengale7
    nightengale7 Posts: 562 Member
    dawnna76 wrote: »
    OH YAY DRAMA. my midday workday just got better. now I just need some microwave popcorn

    I have some apple slices and triscuits I can share.
  • Sooothathappened
    Sooothathappened Posts: 38 Member
    edited April 2017
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  • dpwellman
    dpwellman Posts: 3,271 Member
    STLBADGIRL wrote: »
    what is KIK? Do I need it?
    I wonder the same thing.
  • Carillon_Campanello
    Carillon_Campanello Posts: 726 Member
    We were definitely together.
    It's crazy.
    Man cheats on wife via MFP and KIK. So creepy and gross.
    What's even crazier to me is we're young-ish, we're both attractive, we're "successful", and I loved him.
    It all came as such a shock.
    He said those women gave him "affirmation."
    I don't understand why my affirmation wasn't enough.

    Have you been married for around 7 years? Give or take a year to 18 months?
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,741 Member
    We were definitely together.
    It's crazy.
    Man cheats on wife via MFP and KIK. So creepy and gross.
    What's even crazier to me is we're young-ish, we're both attractive, we're "successful", and I loved him.
    It all came as such a shock.
    He said those women gave him "affirmation."
    I don't understand why my affirmation wasn't enough.

    He has self esteem issues. Obviously.
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
    I know there are a few jokes...but I do feel for you. I really hate that you have to go through this.

    Do you have any kids with him? I hope you find the strength to do what is best for you...whether that's walk away, or stay and fully forgive.
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