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Also it's kind of an expression, I don't see why that part of the conversation matters...
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No, he is from Europe (not going to specify where) but he works in an international company whose main currency is dollars.
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I don't really know how to prove it to you, this is about 0.1% of the total messages that are like this but just to see that I am being serious about this, and this is just over text. There are other reasons why I can't leave him too.
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This thread is still going strong, I see. I was hoping to come back after a few days to see the OP say "I did it!" Cue fireworks and rainbows. Guess I'll have to keep waiting. Good luck![/quote] It might take months for me to do it if I'm completely honest with you, I really hate going out of my comfort zone and making…
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Thank you a lot for the kind comment, I'll try to do step four when I have the courage. :)
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I don't want another girl to end up in a relationship like this, isn't it better for me to stay so that someone else doesn't end up like this?
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So many people are telling me of people like that, which sounds amazing but so much that it kind of seems unreal. I knlw that my current partner isn't the worst one out there and he doesn't physically harm me but what if I try and I end up with someone worse? I'm attached to him, I've been dating him for two years now..
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There is also a good side to him and when I met him he was so fragile and broken and I'm scared that I'll hurt him, plus I don't like the thought of never seeing him again because he used to be the most wonderful person ever.
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My mother had a boyfriend like that when I was 12 and I stood up to him when he was screaming at her, didn't end well but the answer is no, I wouldn't let anyone treat anyone else like this, even a stranger. The thing is that I'm not anyone else, I'm me, if you work in the mental field do you think that there is a…
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Hi guys! I spoke to him over text about it slightly (I already have done before) and he said that he will treat me however I want when I stop being lazy and when he can mold me into want he wants. The molding into what he wants thing started about 4 months ago and is really hard, he says that I'm not putting any effort…
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No, I didn't write about this anywhere else. It's creepy that it's so similar though.
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I am actually currently in the UK haha, thank you. I'm going to try and approach the matter the next time I see him in person as he is currently on a business trip. Wish me luck :)
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Yes, I was 15, officially I didn't live on my own, I supposedly lived with my mother but I moved out because she was verbally abusive and it became physical. I lived at a friends house for a couple of weeks and then managed to move country soon after.
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I am not in the relationship with him because of that, it's just what I had been planning my life on and I hadn't really developed another alternative such as a plan B in case this didn't work out, it was/is quite naive of me now that I come to think of it.
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Wow, you sound like you're a strong person. I have come to terms with the first one but I'm struggling with the second one at the moment. I feel as if I'm not ready to leave yet, but I guess that there will never be the right moment, I'll have to make it for myself. You are truly inspiring for me, I am really glad that…
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He also doesn't wish to seek professional help, he doesn't want to take medications because he has been on them before and they make him a shell of a person and extremely depressed. He becomes a robot and it's really sad to watch.
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First of all, thank you for commenting so much on this discussion, I have seen your name appear on it quite a lot, I appreciate that you are taking the time to give your opinion on something that doesn't affect you. How am I supposed to build up to doing that? With my one past (not serious relationship) the guy cheated on…
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No, I don't rely on my boyfriend at the moment, however, he is a big part of my future, I had made plans with him to move to a different country and to apply to a university there, there I would be nearly completely dependent on him until I manage to get a job there. That university is the one that I dreamt of going to and…
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The sad thing is that I realise this, my instincts tell me this and I realise that I'm trapped in an unhealthy cycle yet I can't bring myself to leave, I'm trying to find an easy way to fix all of this.
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And why do you think that? It could be argued that it is attention seeking, since I am asking for other people's opinions because I need them. I didn't ask them anything about myself though, I'm not seeking for reconfirmations, I'm seeking for the truth. I understand your perspective but please understand that I'm not here…
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I knew that I was going to get judged a lot by posting this but everyone is right about it, I know that, some are just more harsh than others with wording it. I would react the same as everyone else here had it been someone else in my shoes, however, it isn't. When it comes to subjects that I'm not emotionally attached to…
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I would never cheat, I have seen the affects of cheating and I could never do that to anyone, no matter what the circumstances. Not only that but I don't think that I'm capable of trusting someone and getting close to them enough for that, I would also despise myself. Also, concerning number 5, I would never treat anyone…
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I just can't bring myself to do it I guess, I am secretly hoping for it to get better
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How did you manage to get over it and do it? Was it difficult? (if you don't mind talking about it, of course)
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I can't insult him because I feel terrible for doing it afterwards. The worst I have called him is an *kitten* and that happened once when he told me that he was glad that I was crying because of the way he was treating me. I have called him a horrible person various times but then he gets offended over it and I feel…
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Good luck Ms, I'll hope that your baby will be happy and healthy, as well as you! There is nothing more precious than children and their innocence! Hope that everything goes well :)
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How he sometimes is and how he used to be. I swore to myself that I would never leave the person I grew to love no matter what but the thing is that now he is nearly a completely different person. I don't know why, perhaps it's because when I met him he didn't have a job and then he got a job, found out he was great at his…
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A beautiful age of 18, somewhat immature compared to the rest of you with no experience of life whatsoever, just trying to find ways to solve things and failing miserably. It's weird to think that other people pass through things like this and get over it. I have been living on my own since I was 15 so I might have…
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If I try to defend myself with anything else he tells me to stop debating and that he has more experience than what I do (because he is 3 years older than me). This is what he says with every single criticism and if I fight back he ignores me or tells me to *kitten* off. Beautiful, I know. The thing is that I recently…
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I am not exact sure what I'm looking for if I'm completely honest with you, I realise what the real solution is yet I am still not capable of coming to terms with it, I agree with you about growing a backbone, it is something I used to have but now I have become weak I guess. I'm not looking for sympathy, I am being…