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Hm I'm sorry but you can't make him see your point of view, and an ultimatum like that would in my opinion kill the relationship ( he'd still eat n hide it from you etc). You are not his mother, at the end of the day it's his choice, talk to him give him an opinion but don't force it. He is only 24 an obviously got more…

Me... I'm not unhealthy or excessively over weight. My health is good my diet ok, but for vanity I want to look better in a bikini! Just cause its shallow it doesn't make it a bad reason!

I on it now for a week only, I've eating more n not logging bit depressing to read I could be in doing everything though :(

I'm rubbish at shopping for clothes. I don't have a clue, these days I dedicate a day to it and go on my own because I literally try everything on, often the things that look good are the things I never expected to so I make an effort to try things out of my comfort zone. Shopping with friends is great but I have a…

A bit off topic but a running recommendation: I started running for the first time ever a couple of weeks ago. My partner got the 5k run app ( neither of us are runners) to start us off. It Was nice starting n running together but He's a lot fitter than me and ran much quicker :( So I needed more incentive to run, I bought…

Hey that was a lovely response! Thanks x

Well I much as I want to I'm not going to harp on about the difference between welsh cakes n scones! (similar but not the same thing people!!!) But can I just say your confession is very ' an eye for an eye '!!! Instead of support you made a very calculated attack, your mom ( despite her poor communication skills) looked…

Ok its 4lb now, it seems I have a mild case of pleurisy and a bit of weight loss is common. Am I daft to be a bit annoyed because i feel like a weight loss cheater?

My original target is 8 and half pounds away but id love lose 11lb by Xmas!!

Well done!!!!

Don't weigh in. After I've had a days cheat the scale goes mad but settles back to where it should be within a couple of days. Don't add pressure on!

Hey 31 and cw 141 lb. I've got 14 lb to go and been doing 1200 a day for 4 weeks. First week was HARD but now I'm struggling to eat all my 1200 cals which is weird, friend request sent :)

I'm only four weeks in, and coming up to 11lb.

I have 3 dogs :) Thyme my eldest pooch is a 9 year old springer, ive had her since she was 8 weeks old she's like a part of me. Rosie is actually officially my other halfs 6 yr old collie but I've looked after her all her life ( we live together) she's loving but a little unhinged! Jake is my other springer, he's 5 and…

She's not ready, she says she needs to lose weight do you'll say 'no you're beautiful the way you are' because she's insecure. Wait until she begins her weight loss to help.

Hmm i have springers what does this say about me?

Yup! It's 143 for me ( I'm a pound under it now!) :(

Hmm process of elimination, your options are: 1. Dump trainer ( with above excuses and limit your interaction with this man. Which is by far the best option but is obviously something you don't want to do. 2. Carry on until he ( or others realise) and a) he reciprocates and have an affair. B) he doesnt reciprocate you…

Hey another teacher here and I totally get you, there's no way I get to the gym, so I settle for walking my dogs after work. Breakfast is a big issue for me, I grab an alpen bar as I dash out the door and a tub of raspberries ( or similar) to munch in the car. Lunch is horrific as they feed me and I'm so distracted I often…

I weigh myself everyday (yeah I know but it's interesting!) I found that after the first week when I was losing everyday, that the weight loss stabilised and worked in fluxes almost. I'd stay the same for like 3-4 days then drop 1-2lb over night then stick there for a bit before a big overnight drop again. I also found…

Okay count me in! Cw: .144.5 lbs Gw: 126 lbs Not quite 20lbs but think getting down there might be tough enough!

Thanks! looking at your weight loss though I don't think you need be jealous of anyone -wow! As I said I feel a little bit of a fraud as I didnt have that far to go compared to many here, who are totally inspiring in their perservence, but still walking on air today :)

Thanks guys :D I never realised what a mind game it all was, I'm sure I *look* no different today, but now I'm looking in the mirror thinking 'yeah I look thinner' rather than yest when I though 'yuk blob'. I'm hoping posting this today will remind me in a few days, weeks etc that it IS working and there are good days in…