ASchmeidler1981 Member

So, almost a year ago I posted this. I am proud to say I am divorced and single as of Wednesday. You all were so right. My kids are happy and so am I. I still need to lose weight but it is only for me now.

Darn, it's so quiet here. Lol

Hmmm, can't answer on a post I think. The monitors shut down flirtatious stuff, and no I'm not flirting. Seriously, right now I would be snuggled up with someone special. How about the rest of y'all?

Well, let's start with 2 questions: 1. What brought you to this app 2. How long have you been on here. If you respond, you must ask a new question to keep the conversation going😉 I've been on here off and on for 2 or 3 years, and my oldest got me started, but she quit.

I accepted. I agree. This stuff is getting frustrating more than anything. My kids are stuck home, and they hate it. I used to teach, so they love school. How's everything else going

Lol, well on an update. He realized how bad it hurt, and his first response was to take me to my favorite restaurant. Now, he's involved and even helping to cook me healthy alternative dinners (which my kids try to steal). It's interesting, but mostly I really needed to vent. Often, people never feel good enough, and I…

If I focus on a "diet" I gain weight. I enjoy this app because it holds me accountable, and I pick and choose what I consume, and if I indulge, I increase my exercise. It's like playing a balancing game. It is kind of fun that way.

Sorry I haven't responded recently. I just had my first grandson. We almost lost him and his mom. They are fine, but her has Spina bifida.

I sent friend's requests

Too funny

Thank you, that means a lot. More than anything to hear.

I really really love that!

You were very blessed. I am sorry for your loss. I have never had the joy of seeing this type of relationship in real life.

Wisely spoken, thank you. His and my struggle is intimate, so at this point the kids are definitely not aware of the issue. Meanwhile, my husband and I have went through a lot, and we are seeking Christian marriage counseling; unfortunately, money and time stands in our way. We have FINALLY started communicating, and he is…

Thank you everyone for letting me vent. I really needed to.😊

Thank you, yes this is exactly what I am trying to say. It is great fuel when you really don't feel like doing anything. The benefits: I am out swimming with my children, playing Just Dance, getting up when I am depressed instead of sinking into my bed and melting away. I do not justify not condone his words or actions,…

No, I do get that "getting even" isn't right, but as I said in an earlier post, it is about more than just him. This was just a trigger. This is about a life long battle with how I see myself.

You are amazing. Thank you. I really do need the support. I am passive aggressive, so I get even by "showing them" lol. I am consuming 1300 to 1600 calories a day. I am actively swimming while my kids play in the pool, and I am working construction with him over the summer, but this app doesn't account for mudding and…

I don't blame anyone. It is merely my motivation, because I truly am beautiful. I can hurt him the best by turning heads😝

:D That's funny

Right, because I am almost 38. I am about to have my first grandbaby, and I am feeling "older" lol

I would love an alibi :)

Lol :D y'all are awesome. How is this tracker working for you? How long have you been on here?

I see you

I'm trying to go from 219 to 150, I am currently 216 thanks to this app. I play a game with it to balance my nutrition, it makes it fun.

I don't know how to add friends, but I am trying to do the same.

Hi ryan, I'm doing the same but I can't figure out how to add friends. Lol

Hello community, I'm on here trying to get to and maintain a healthy weight, plus get ready for a cruise in january. Dieting is very difficult, so if there's anyone who wants to become buddies to support each other, hit me up☺

I would go to the ocean