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That is wonderful that your kids are engaging in extracurricular activities, I'm sure you are a great mum and congrats on your new job :) :) The thing is that I told Jasiek point blank that I'm not paying him one pence. I should not have to do so, he has a job and bottom line if he wants to be with me that is his choice,…

Thank you. Jasiek gets paid tomorrow so he will pay me back the money that he owes me. The thing is that if I didn't marry Jasiek I would still live off of my parents so this is not about money. I will not have to pay for living somewhere in any case. However I would have a bad taste in my mouth if he expected me to pay…

Hi, well what I mean is that I went to some museums and parks with him and they cost money like the aquarium but he didn't have money as he hadn't started working so I had to pay for him. I also had to put money on his Oyster card as well and I topped up his phone 20 pounds. I would say I had known him for a few days…

Bottom line I just finished talking with my boyfriend and I told him point blank that I am not giving him a cent if he wants me to live with him. I also told him that if we get married I will not pay for food or anything else because he should take care of me and he said that he prefers it that way. I also told him that I…

Oh um my dad paid for the place so I don't owe a mortgage or anything, sorry for not being very very clear first time :/

You're right I got into a relationship with him the 2nd day I knew him but he is from Poland and I have been in that community for a long time and I think that things happen faster in this culture. I am 29 yes. And he has farted in front of me and snored which has made it hard for me to sleep so honestly it may be best if…

The thing is that my parents support me and I also support myself in the sense that I have stocks so I do not need money off of him but for him to tell me I need to pay him in order for us to live together and get married does not make sense. If he said okay I cannot afford the rent okay fine but you are saying I need to…

I have my own place that I own right now is that I'm saying, sorry for the confusion

Please don't laugh but we've only been together for 3 weeks, we are both emotional people. And by the way the reason I am so broke now is that he spent a loooot of my money, I didn't even keep track....so I'm not using him at all!

That's what I'm saying he used the words I need to pay him. If he would have said okay so the rent is X and you can pay half, that would be fine but when he said I need to pay him, it sounded as if it was a transaction. Maybe I'm overreacting. I'm going to wait and see but at this point I'd rather be single than pay to be…

It's not rent, he said the words "you need to pay me to live with me" which makes it sound like he wants to be paid to be in a relationship with me. That made me uneasy. Also I already have my own place right now so why should I pay him even more? :( I'm pretty broke and the place would just be sitting empty, he does not…

Ahhh yes that reminds me Overeaters' Anonymous meets Saturdays.

According to MFP, my maintenance is under 2000 calories.....I've been eating 8000-10000 a day, I eat until I am crying in pain but the thinking is that I will have to face the sadness if I don't eat, so I keep doing so until I'm in so much pain I can't even drink a sip of water :( I am currently too broke to afford…

Yes....even though I was overeating like CRAZY to the point where I was crying in pain but I didn't know how to stop because of my overwhelming sadness.....I did make a point of buying stuff with nutrition labels on it! Sadly, right now I am really broke so I can't talk to a therapist....I don't have close friends. I have…