hestavi Member

Awesome thanks! Can I add you?

Thank you so much ! Will send you an add request. What's your take on eating at a deficit while doing this program? I'm trying to lose weight and can't afford to eat at maintenance or surplus.

Bump?

I see.. my shoulders are narrower than my hips, at least by 3-4 inches. I am happy with my body shape per se (as in relative proportions of waist to hip) so I never really wanted to change it, but did wanted to reduce BF to around 25%. I am currently around 35% BF.

I haven't reached my goal weight yet. What do you do to prevent the wrinkles from being noticeable?

Why?

Thanks a lot. I do want to try therapy. It's a little expensive so I am holding out and until I find something in my budget. I guess there are people who look beyond looks-- I am probably yet to find them. A part of me still wants to be attracted to the guy I'm with, but then I realize that I have no options so i should…

So I had pointed out in the new patient form that I was concerned with asymmetry in my eyes, which is when he pointed out all the other stuff. He also said he did not mean to make me feel self-conscious, so I knew he wasn't trying to be mean, but... I don't know. Maybe I do have facial dysmorphia. I am just really, really…

Yes, I understand that you do not encourage surgery, but are being supportive. I am considering a second opinion, but I am just really mentally tired at this point. Maybe I will start looking for other options soon. Thank you for your advice :)

Thanks fraukazi, that's the spirit in which I went to the surgeon myself. Unfortunately, he said it's a skeletal problem and very complex to treat. The only solution he had was to lift one eyebrow which would cost me $4500. I decided against it, because the impact was going to be very minimal. Even if he had said he knew…

Thanks. I do keep trying to improve my self worth on a regular basis, but every once in awhile something like this happens and things just come crashing down.

I agree with him wanting my business, but this isn't the first time i have heard those things. I do not mean to contradict you, though.

Believe me, that's what I have done all these years. Finding my passion, looking for things that excite me and building up my confidence. But it doesn't take much for all of it to come crashing down. People make comments on my appearance all the time. I've heard, you're messed up, you look weird, odd, everything. I once…