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I'm so sorry for your loss. Lost and lots of hugs. Just grieve, and don't be afraid to talk about it even if you end up crying. Its a release, don't hide the pain, especially from your husband. Do what you can for now to get through it. Don't rush to get pregnant again if you don't feel up to it. Just relax, take your time…

Well...there is always craigslist :smooched: I met my husband online, though not on a dating site. It was a forum for an anime convention. My friend and I were looking for more friends our age to hang out with at the convention and he was too. So we met at the convention after a few nervous conversions and hit it off :)…

Its a daily work out but if you follow the program I believe there are rest days. When I bought it, I never was strct with it, just did the videos I liked (mostly kick, punch and jam). Its not as intense as insanity. I really liked it though, helped me lose about 40lbs a few years ago. I also did biking/stationary bike…

I was looking at that chart and i'm not sure some of those studies should be compared. Look at the deficit differences. Of course a diet deficit of 945 compared to and exercise created deficit of 190 cals is going to lose more weight. Do they have any studies out there that compare a same deficit (as in a diet deficit of…

This was totally what I was looking for!! Are you going to start a group in the groups section for the challenge? I need some serious motivation, Hoping to lose weight but my main goal right now is to just get out of my funk and get exercise back into my daily routine. Me stats: Weight: last check in may... 226lbs. height:…

This is what i used to do before I just got too tired from the sleep deprivation of my 8 month old not sleeping through the night, now having teeth ad being sick at the same time....I need sleep before i can start up again. 5am: wake up/get kids ready. 5:30-7am: commute to work 7am-3:30-work 3:30-5 or 5:30- commute home…

That is awesome sauce!! it shows me that it is possible :) I am also 5'7 and starting at 222 after 2 kids, my youngest is now 7 months. I have been overweight all my life, and i actually didn't keep any pregnancy weight with both of them. Can I ask, what your starting weights were when lifting and where you are lifting at…

In! but i can't do the 100 squats, I am doing weighted squats to keep the number down or else my knee will hate me. It can handle the weight with say 8-10 reps sets, just not 100 of them

In! I just started, like thursday....so i will take some befores and hopefully my laters end up in here too :)

I don't have a pic but anyone for adrian brody from his King kong days...mmmmmm Oh and whoever posted the pic of randy ortin...*drools*

Your internal organs haven't gone back into position yet and regrown the connective tissue that was messed up by the surgery. Also it takes a minimum of 6 weeks for your abdominal muscles to fully heal and close the incisions that were made in it to get to your abdomen. You should only be doing small walks at this point,…

its not really like pregnancy at all. In pregnancy, the baby just grows...you wait...(but then there are the symptoms...morning sickness, excess saliva, hips hurt, back hurts, heart burn). Losing weight is a very active process and you have to be there mentally to make it happen, being pregnant and growing a baby is more…

Hi, I can't seem to find my invite

I would also like to join. I'm a 30 year old working mom as well, just had my second daughter 6 months ago and need to get some muscle mass back and lose weight after 2 back to back pregnancies and the last one i was on bed rest for half of it. I have chalean extreme and turbo jam (which i love) i just need some serious…

I had my 2nd daughter on 9/23 so she is 3 months old now. I am 5lbs under my pre-preg weight, even though i'm overweight already, i never seem to hang onto any pregnancy weight I gain even with my first. I really want to gain my strength back though because I was on bed rest a lot with this one and lost some muscle mass,…

*bumping to follow* I hope you are :) I'm about 8 weeks myself (morning sickness...bleh!) I didn't have any signs before my period with this one, but with my first child, a few days before I was due for my period my boobs started hurting like mad.

Due september 28th, morning sickness hitting hard. only 6.5 weeks along. I hope you escape this part :)

let see... I went to ( a lot) : frugal flowers off beat bride the knot the wedding bee (great forum section) Also, if your doing some DIY stuff, like your own invitations, centerpieces, napkin rings etc, I found youtube videos to be extrememly helpful.

O...m..G! I had to stop readin half way through that! I am at work and trying to hold the laughter in so hard, I had tears coming out and my ribs are aching! I'm bumping this so I can read the rest at home without getting glares and strange looks from my coworkers.

www.burpee.com Great site to order seeds from and they have tons of articles on getting started gardening. I use them all the time. My grandma hooked me up with them, they used to order seeds from their print catalog back before the internetz existed. I have found them to be a good resource. Basically yes, it is about…

Go to your doctors, have them check you for anemia. I remember feeling like that when I had moderate to severe anemia, even though i had been working out for months.

Name: Melissa Hubby/Partner: Wayne How many kids do you have: One, a 7mo old girl Due Date: September 28th 2012 Do you know the gender: Not yet Have you picked out the baby's name: Lots of in-fighting going on with this, highly dependent on if boy or girl Where do you live: Boston, MA Workouts you are doing while pregnant:…

awww!!! that is awesome! I'm so glad it worked out for you! *romantic heart*

We are currently trying to conceive. I'm not sure if I should post here because I never had problems conceiving our first one. She is 7 months old now and I only have to wait 2 more days to find out ( 2 week wait always kills me) It only took me til the second cycle to get pregnant with my first and this is our second…

Does your other half: Do an equal share of the housework when he/she is home? Sometimes, though his are the "man chores" like the litter box or trash. other than that not really...i'm following behind him with the vacuum Cook for you? Once in a while, but neither of us are great cooks Go food shopping? Yes :) but I have to…

I would leave. Find a place to stay, be on your own for a while, and just work on your issues and fix yourself. Find out who you are inside and what you are capable of without anyone else around. Are you seeing a doctor? You should be, they can help you out more than anyone on the internet can. If you are seeing a doctor,…

I would go with the drunken kiss thing, but that is me :) bump Following...

Hahaha, omg this is awesome. My husband was sick this weekend with a fever and I made him chicken soup. I hate chicken soup so I made it just for him. I bring it up stairs and give it to him in bed. I wait while he tries some and he says, ".needs more salt." :grumble: But of course proceeds to eat the entire (large) bowl…

I can't exercise through them at all. I don't get them too often but when I do, I need to curl up in a dark place to sleep them off. If that isn't working, try Excedrin migraine meds. They have aspirin, Tylenol and caffeine in them. I usually only need one pill, but I take it as soon as I feel it coming and it stops it in…

To get stronger and stay stronger. Off to a good start with chalean extreme I just got on january 2nd :) Man am I sore!