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Omg. I went on vacation in Toronto and me and the BF stood out so badly. Though in the states we're average, if not a little below average. Kinnnnda sucked and was an eye opener!

I met my BF (definitely future husband in time) on OkCupid. I think OkCupid is the best since it's free, but not sketchy like, say, Craigslist. I wouldn't pay for a dating site, personally.

Mine do. Surprisingly enough, they're one of the first places I lose weight, lol. I think it's water weight there.

I was on it, twice a day, for the longest time. Don't freak out about the seizure stuff - it's really not that big of an increased risk. I'm sure it happens, but you also have to be on a huge dose for it to happen. When I drank when I took antidepressants, I would get suicidal, so I would caution against ANYTHING to drink.…

You're SUPER pretty! You just look a lot more secure and happier in the later pictures. :) Good for you! Stay healthy!

Hey there! I am 5' 8" and about 191 right now. A couple years back, I weighed 130 and I looked *sick* (and, frankly, was). My first goal is 164, since that would put me in the normal BMI range. I would like to get down to 140, but I really don't know past there. I am eating 2000-2500 cal/day depending on my activity level…

I'm 5' 8", 193, and I wear L/XL (since my bust is big at 36DD and my shoulders are broad) on top and a 12 on bottom.

I messaged you on here!

Obesity is related to increased risk for DVTs and respiratory issues. Personally, I'd prefer to be inpatient (with insurance) when getting surgery done. Any type.

I find that I HAVE to wear fitted dresses - not necessarily pencil skirt or body mod dresses, but I definitely can't do A-line dresses, empire waists (I have huge boobs - it makes me look SO pregnant), and those types. Most of the wedding dresses I'm looking at are sheath style! ETA: When you try to hide your hips, you…

19, 5' 8", and am starting at 199. Down to 192 now! :)

Definitely go to your doctor - I don't necessarily agree that physical health should take priority, aha. The 25 pounds I gained from psychotropic medication is very much worth the life that they gave me back (I would have offed myself last July if I hadn't gotten treatment). Don't ever be afraid to seek mental health…

You gotta realize that everyone is really just concerned with themselves; you're really not as noticed as you think you are, hahaha. I have/had bad social anxiety and know exactly where your at. Go for walks outside in shorts/tight pants/whatever you're going to go running in, and just get used to that. Best of luck! :)…