kerrymh Member

Hell ya I gotta agree with Mom..what grown a ss man lets his dad pay for everything? Um no way! Sprint run..far far away.

Oh we are so similar :) but seriously just go for it..that way you can pick. My first kiss was with some random guy at a bar when I was 21 I was drunk and had no idea what I was doing and it was surreal. But I was so shy..so horribly shy around men especially men I was attracted to because of my insecurities about my size.…

Why do you guys assume that she is lying about not having anyone else to date??? Didnt you see that other thread all about how young men aren't dating anymore they are just hanging out? If the OP doesn't feel desirable its probably alot to do with the men around her not asking her out because they are chicken lol. She is…

Lol that's pretty much it I want to know I'm desired..and that is romantic to me. I've never felt that a man has desired ME before..romance is not a big showy thing in my mind..its someone who wants to know me really know me and shows it by the things they do and the way they treat me differently than the other people in…

Its a holiday here and I'm on vacation this week yippi! But I went to visit my BFF, she has an 8 yo son and 5 and 2 yo daughters and is preggers and single parenting as her husband has to work away. So I hung out and was fun Auntie Kerry for the weekend..we were pretty laid back which was nice for once..and I got a big…

Lol.. well I've done it..but nothing has ever happened with me asking a man out other than the occasional coffee date, I get the feeling the men who've said yes were just humoring me anyway lol. And believe me when I say. I'm not expecting a fairy tail I'm 35yo single woman the fairy tail ended a LONG time ago. But why…

I have asked men out before..but for me there is something lost in the romance of it when I have to do the asking, I've been rejected I get over it lol. I enjoy an assertive man. I would like to be asked...there is something sexy about someone putting themselves out there for that few seconds. But today its a lost art, I…

I do still feel this pressure myself..I'm still 50lbs away from normal. But I've lost so much and I'm so different from where I started that I'm sick of waiting for that last 50lbs which have alluded me for 1.5 years. I want to be loved and to love back lol 50lbs or not. god damn it lol end rant.

I basically still find the same thing attractive..only NOW I feel that I could be attractive to that type back lol. I've really always found active fit men most attractive..average to fit to a slight belly...but those guys were never looking back at 400lb me and saying "Wow what a catch" Lol. Now I still find its not that…

Seriously I think its cool that his mom really knows who he is. And really why would a man who is in his late 20's an Athlete at the peek of his career and who has all the world at his feet and women throwing themselves at him not do what he's doing. Sure its alittle douchee..but so long as he's up front and honest who…

I think its pure laziness they use hun or babe or sexy because they don't actually remember your name, and they have a few others they are emailing at the same time so..its easy for them to just use a generic lazy hun. I don't like it at all

Sadly I was 19..some random guy asked me to dance at a bar and then started making out with me..I'd never been kissed before that, don't know his name, I think I was in alittle bit of shock. Lol my best friend met her husband that night though.

I agree with the top 4, then the meat eater thing and the good listener..but I like brown eyes, and don't care about languages and would appreciate romance and good bedroom skills lol

I would run, far away. He either doesn't know which is bad or he knows and is not ready to make the changes to his own behaviour to make another relationship last which is bad...or he knows and he's the reason ie cheating still BAD. Big huge red flag. I wouldn't get too attached to him.

I've tried this.. for the last year..or so..and nada not one date not one interested male. I'm in 2 running clubs, I go kayaking with different groups of random people every other friday, I've gone to karaoke, I go hiking, ect. I keep meeting married men and lots of women. Its very frustrating in terms of hoping to meet a…

good question. Personally I wouldn't want to meet someone elses child until I had feelings for the guy. I easily fall for children and I wouldn't want to start that bond prematurly I hope that the father would understand that his intentions towards me have to be very clear before he introduced me to his son or…

Started at 390 and thats a guess. I couldn't get a reading on my scale after I hit 385 it errored out. Anyway this has to be a lifestyle change..little by little make small manageable changes to your life. Don't think of things as cheat, but keep things in moderation, smaller portions more color, and do more activity..that…

Just dance with the man...its not like you're doing something super intimate. Just dance.

i would have guessed 25-26 but your a new friend too because i'm 35 lol

Carl its kind of hard to tell in this picture but I'm going with 45.

Its a myth..perhaps the same 5% of the female population 18 to 30 who are a 9-10 rating in looks will get their email inboxes blown up with a million messages..I'm sure they have thousands..and honestly I'm guessing online dating is a big ego boost for them because really why do they need to be online when in real life…

Never thought I would be consistent with logging my food for so long..I like it its not a pain in the butt..its simple easy part of my life style change. I like seeing the trends and I like the friends.

Thanks for your responses..I did communicate that I had made the mistake of not knowing how to react to his intensity..and that I apologize for leading him on. He understood he said that he did come on very strong and he felt that he could understand that I want to take it at a different speed and was open to me calling…

Very inspirational thanks for posting!

Love it, watched on Netflix and I'm not sure what season they have up til..I like it.

The funny thing is that in most other aspects of my life I am soooo not a people pleaser but in the initial stages of dating I'm seeing a pattern. Something to work on for the next time.

I might just copy and paste this and use it lol

I love that men are alittle hairy lol, have strong hands, deep voices, strong shoulders, usually handy with tools and...like sports and will explain it to me. I like that men are just very different in how they think..I like someone who can be logical or geeky and see a different side of things so long as they are patient…

this made me alittle depressed lol

Thanks Carl, I was thinking the same thing as in the past when I attempted to do it the nice way it really draged on..the guy would keep trying to convince me that I should want to date him. Sometimes its just not a match. I know I've felt sad when I've connected and the other person didn't...but I won't lower myself to…