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Sometimes you just have to accept someone for who they are flaws and all and decide is it worth it the effort you need to put into it to be the friend they want you to be. I might like someone like that..care about them but I won't lie to them and tell them what they want to hear. IF that means they get pissy and think I…
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I want company, I want sex. And I want babies. Lol simple really.
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If someone has a good idea I'm game for whatever. I've tried meetup (going to be going to a Xmas meetup party tonight), I've tried online dating, I've tried just joining groups kayaking/running ext. I have NO clue how to have a man as for my #. And yes there is the alternative that I ask for his...but for the most part…
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the shopping cracked me up too..pretty cute.
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3 weeks is nothing try 2 years...no twirly :(
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good luck Jen I've only had one person I dated long enough to really have to "break up" I knew he loved me..and he was a sweet guy..just not the right guy..hardest thing I had to do was hurt him but it would have hurt him more if I kept on with the lie.
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Kerry 35 from Halifax NS CA.
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I can relate to the safe thing..only men I have cum with I felt that they actually cared about me when I looked in their eyes..so I felt safe and could let go, 2 times in 35 years..I hope my statistics get better someday. As for the socks thing...I don't get it. I think feet shouldn't be covered up and they are part of the…
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and here I am a girl wanting to figure out where to go to meet men..ugh. where do single men hang out that want a gf
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Its so true. I tend to listen to the negative and ignore the praise. It's conditioning for me I think. I was ignored for years I thought the weight loss would change that.. surprisingly I'm almost more invisible now. The funny thing is that "I" believe I'm a catch, but some how don't think "men" think I am....weird twisted…
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hehe love this, and I hear you Jen..I'm trying to clean my way out of my funk today.
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@hope last one on the second row..nice eye makeup and cheek bones for days.
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This is why now if I online date: 1. I do not talk naughty unless I would follow through..ie if I'm not totally hot for the guy initially and they start with that kind of chat before meeting I won't meet them. 2. If they won't meet with in the same week of initiating chat...I don't meet. The fantasy will take over and then…
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I consider myself lucky with my career. I get to help people who are diagnosed with cancer on a daily basis, whether it be to treat them to cure their cancer or to just help take away their pain to live a fuller life with the time they have left. I am never bored, and always inspired. And I get paid! Its great! I'm…
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Well I've only had one guy I dated long enough to consider him a bf..that was for 6 months and it ended 2 years ago so other than a 6 month blip I've been single for 35 years haha. The only time I've really gotten a date is when I go on pof...but I don't enjoy the people I meet so I get sick and tired and get off...but…
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I don't know I get a lot of .."I must have a bf" comments (IRL)..why? I haven't had a bf for longer than 6 months in my lifetime and that was once..So I don't get it..never been approached irl and online I got attention but not really from who I want. This still doesn't make me feel like I'm not a catch..I do think I'm a…
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trim, and prefer the same or bare on a man..bare on me just would look silly (IMO)
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Happy Birthday!
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I think for me alot of it has to do with trust. I don't relax with out trust...atleast not totally. I can enjoy the act but not reach orgasm.. But I can't seem to get a man to stick around long enough to really build trust. The one relationship I did have I was the teacher..he had no idea and was very repressed so my last…
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guess that makes me in the majority ..not everytime but pretty much more often than not I would have had to finish solo. lol
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I thought everyone had a dirty mind...no wonder everyone wants in! add me :)
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Of course I'm selfish..heck I'm single who else is going to look after my own needs and wants and desires at this age? My parents? If I was part of a couple I would enjoy being less selfish but for now no one else is going to take care of myself but me so sue me! That doesn't mean I'm a bad person, that doesn't mean I…
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I always figure that men will look, I just better be the one they come home to. The reality is there are many attractive people in the world and humans like beauty..it catches our eye, men and women both. We can't stop that nor should we have to. But look don't touch! I certainly hope that if I ever end up with a partner…
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been there done that..if I'm actually really physically into a man I just turn into a blushing shy twit
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I would want life. I have parents still together going on 37 years, and a large extended family with similar great marriages. I'm old fashioned in someways and I do think it takes 2 people to be like minded to make it til death do you part..this as we all know isn't so common today. I'd be happy to work on a marriage with…
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before I messed up my face but going on the wrong bc..I would run around with no make up on frequently with no thought what so ever..make up is fun don't get be wrong..but now I need to cover up my acne and I hate my face with out make up :(
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If I was waiting for the perfect person...with no flaws I would tell myself no wonder you are still alone because he doesn't exist! My Ideal partner will be full of flaws just like me :)...just hopefully none of the major deal breakers that I don't think I could live with. Perfect for me is certainly more what I'm looking…
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Oh I confess this too! Ugh my best friend and her "husband" (they aren't married) do that ALL THE TIME..its like 5th grade on fb..makes me want to vomit....I don't mind the occasional cute little comment but sometimes they do it 10 times a day!
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I honestly don't know how that would happen for me...but if I felt that this person was amazing and could be a life partner..vs a job....I would date that person. Life is about more than work. Right now all I have is work..I'd like more than that.
