steveostick

If this entire situation was flipped around it would be unacceptable. He is 6" and 198?! Not even considered overweight... God forbid you would gain 20 lbs (OMG 20 lbs), and he started making comments to you about needing to watch your diet. It would be absurd. Life is full of ups and downs. Especially if you are in "love"…

That's what I thought. Any idea of what someone like me should have?

I think a pound a week?