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  • congrats, one day at a time and then one day you will realize that wow you have not even thought about it in like a week, month, year. I have 8 years behind me. My husband smokes and all it does now is make me mad that he smokes around me and the smell of him after he has one keeps me reassured that smoking is so not cool,…
  • our family eats almost anything, but as of recently we have been going through are Biggest loser and Heart healthy cookbooks and planning our weekly menu and grocery list. Saves us the money to. We have at least 8 weeks out. It has been such a success in our home we are now looking at planning breakfast and lunch to. It is…
  • Some really good advice here, thank you all. I am gonna try some to see if it will help a little more. I am always looking for something new to tell my self, as I am such a great debater within my own head LOL :)
  • I struggle with that sometimes to. I put motivational quotes on my fridge and have been saying the mantra to myself. But the only thing I can say is three weeks ago after all the yo you crap myself I kept talking to myself saying get up and get motivated. I was even looking for ways to motivate myself as well. The best…
  • ya'll makin me hungry
  • Don't feel humiliated, try and learn to laugh about that. I am sure he really did not even think about it. to a man who truly loves you and respects you for who you are. They don't see size.... Try to find the positive you worked your butt off so at least he didn't yell 22. Were women and we get to hung up on size's not…
  • I agree with KMBROOKS, seek a counseling for yourself. You have to hear from a professional that his shortcoming are his to own and not yours. Your children need a healthy mom and friend. I think maybe a good work out would be good for you to. Get out and just walk. It tends to give you perspective and that moment alone to…
  • Thank You everyone, I look forward to my new support group:smile:
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