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  • No you are not. But I wasnt talking about EVERY scenario. Just this one. And the fact that she kept GOING BACK. After he had already made his feelings clear....she kept repeating the scenario and making herself available to only a phsyical relationship when SHE wanted more... I was talking about emotionally easy. I guess I…
  • Don't get how my opinions are sexism. (especially since usually I get accused of wearing the pants in the family) My understading of FWB relatinship correct me if i'm wrong. Two FRIENDS who agree to have sex to fulfill a phsyical need with the understanding that it is not going to be a relationship. She wanted a…
  • But would you have been cool with him dating/sleeping with other people? With the understanding that this is not a relationship. Would you have let it go for 2 years without a title? Congrats btw. Chemistry is great ( I slept with my husband LONG before I married him) I can see the appeal of FWB , but only for short term…
  • Honestly I have not seen any evidence where he is a GOOD friend. Let alone worth something more. I think he used you because he could (not evidence of a good friend) To show him that he can't take anything from you , stop giving him anything: time, attention, thought. He is out of your life and not worth it ( I can't…
  • I'm not saying make him climb over hot coals. But how many FWB arrangements do you know that turned into meaningful loving relationships. FWB is great if thats all you want...... If you want a meaningful relationship do not giveinto a FWB scenario.... Considering I was born in the late 80's, I don't think its outdated. But…
  • 1. Why did you want him to talk to you ( I honestly would be pissed off if he DID talk to me after I was treated like that) 2. You are too easy. I don't say that to be rude but men only appreciate what it takes work to get and keep. Rules to follow: 1. NEVER allow yourself to be treated with less than respect ( bedroom…
  • I think that it is the persons right IF they are legally sane and not suffering from a mental condition that makes it impossible for them to make an informed choice. Psychologists would/should be required to verify that the person is sane and capable of making their own informed decisions, just like we do before trials. If…
  • I think that anyone who does a 1200 calorie diet needs to take into account thier activity level and size. I tried 1200 and did not lose weight as I could not sustain it, with work outs. However just jumping to 1400 per day and eating back about 1/2 my w/o calories per week as kept the weight loss progressing. If I was not…
  • It would be great if I could stop putting cream and sugar in it...
  • This just happened to me. Just got to 138 last week..was so excited.....family member died, went home for weekend,and badfood choices and alcohol occured...weighed myself today thinking please not over 140..and for the first time saw under 138..who knew...
  • I think your makekup looks lovely. And honeslty who gives a "flying ****" some people never grow up after HS ( and learn that appearances do not make a person)
  • I think you will be fine. Just keep fit and heatlhy along with stretching , It will help with recovery. And considering the narrow window that pregnancy NORMALY occurs in. I think it is fine to be suprised. And even if you are trying it is normal to be apprehensive. Good luck!
  • Pita cut in half to make two pockets : 150/ 8 slices roast beef 120, two packages of pre packaged apples 60/ pickle pack 0 and jello pudding 100 yes it looks like something you would throw into a lunch box, that is bascially what it is..oh and sparkiling water with lemon
  • lol...It should be fun...I figure worse comes to worse,we can go really cheesy..then hand out the free wine!
  • That is exactly how I felt when I started. I was super fit when I was younger, but somehow let myself go...literally. Good luck, just go slow and you'll eventually remember why you used to love the gym/working out.
  • Okay , how long have you been together? Is this trip planned aroudn that time because of an event outside her control? A game or convention..if so no, but do make sure you get a good compensation out of it. --- I have left my husband on his B-day ( football game) He has left me on mine ( transformers convention) and…
  • The moral around the office is lovely ( I am USAF and work with 1/2 civilians..or I did) That being said I think their are good and bad to the healthcare law. I do not think it will realistically work in the longterm as written, I did not vote for it, and I do wonder where we are getting the money for it from..... but just…
  • I have actually put a lot of thought into this as well. I am 5ft and 1 and 1/2 inches tall. I have been everything from 106 to 155. To decide what I wanted I looked through old photos and decided that between 120- and 127 is where I want to end up. That will usually have me at a solid size 4 and roughly at about a 36/25/38…
  • I would stay fit bit is over estimating your calories. Depending on your weight. I know a 45 min walk for me on an incline of 12-15 is only about 400+ calories. ( I take 10-15 percent off the top) And I generally do not add any from the walking I do during the day. I chalk that up to the inacurracies of my food calculator.…
  • Go for a long walk, if your not cramping to bad. that way you can have one of your craving items when you get back
  • I would like a costume I bought for November for my renewal to be a little loose instead of a little tight. It is a corset top and bloomer bottoms. So the top I'm good with, but the bottoms I would like about an inch of my waist for....Soon baby soon.. That outfit...If it ever looks like that on me ..then i'll post pics :)…
  • Texas Cheese Frieds Potatoes Bacon Cheese Jalepenos Ranch All bad ..all DELICIOUS
  • Run, Run, Run.... That will help you lose weight and it will be the biggest factor in how well you do physically at boot camp. If you can become a runner you will hate it a lot less. That is also the most point factor in your PFT. Run and pushups for girls. Have someone spot you. If you are still not doing well, I suggest…
  • I am a bit under 5' 2" - I feel your pain I started out at 155 last year and last month was thrilled to get to 140 until I got this stupid app that told me my "ideal" weight was 118!!!...goodness I havent weighed that since freshemen year of College, and honestly its not even my goal... SW : 155 ( not again thank you) CW :…
  • I did a steady does of tea. No sugar but has caffiene. also bring enough snacks to get you threw the 8 hours.....lots of little foods... I also slept from 8-12 then got up and went back to bed around 6/7 to get me on a normalish schedule..
  • I just figure that if I keep going that eventually I will be fit again and my resigned indignation to go the gym will be actual anticipation. I am also thinking about rewarding myself with a martial arts membership if I get to my goal weight of under ( 130) b/c nothing hurts me more ( figuratively and literally) than being…
  • Where did you get the outfit?
  • Feel free to add me. Glad you are doing what you need to get better. Do you have a jug or something with a lid ( it is easier to bring a huge sealed container than even a small one without a lid) - expert on crutches
  • I wear them...because its still warm here ( i'm in AL) the high is 90, but they air condition buildings to 60 so capris are a good compromise. I have also found that with wedge heels they tend to look cute and not make me look shorter.
  • What defines high maintenance? 1. Do I color my hair : yes 2. Do I paint my nails : yes 3. Do I generally dress cute to go out : yes 4. Do I wear makeup: BB cream, mascara and lipgloss or lipstick ( so Yes) 5. Do I have a job and make my own money : HELL YES ( My husband is actually the one at home, he is trying to get a…
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