luv4dolls2

I also have good intentions for exercise but a very long work day and often I find it is hard to fit in any exercise. I do try and get out at lunch and walk, but often I work at lunch too. I can lose weight without exercise, but I can't eat much, I keep telling myself I could eat more if I worked out more...but again time…

I feel your frustration -- maybe the nay sayers are trying to make themselves feel better. If you eat healthy then they feel bad that they aren't? I don't know but I've noticed similar comments by people around me, so like you I keep my plan to drop a few pounds to myself and just go about my business. Hang in there!