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You did ATM, by the way.

Yes, I think that is very valid and even proven statistically. I'm not a fan of the whole "alcoholic / addict" label and the 12-step culture it usually refers to, but that's jut me and a whole other topic.

I wasn't implying that, merely trying to draw a parallel of someone halting a string of poor decisions. I'm exaggerating P's experience to try to make a point. Honestly, I'm taking it a little too personally and going off on unnecessary tangents. There are a million reasons to not date someone with any sort of psychiatric…

Flimflam, great write up, and I agree that a committed relationship is a common way to lose it. That's what I did.

You obviously can pick apart any comparison that is not exact for exact instead of trying to open yourself up to a new point of view. 50 pounds overweight is overweight. You knowingly put things in your body that were damaging your health, lowering the respect of those around you, and chipping away at your self esteem. If…

http://www.groundfighter.com/Duke-Roufus-Muay-Thai-Instructional-DVDs/ I've only watched a little bit of his videos, but what I saw was good. It's not really a structured cardio workout, though. The DVD set is pretty expensive, I won't say that you can download them from your favorite torrent site as that might be against…

How many calories is that?

Just to throw in an interesting perspective, your profile states that you were 50 pounds overweight. Curious if you would date yourself, given your unsexy lack of self control and abuse of food. ;)

Good thing we're not trying to get in each other's pants. ;) Most medical professionals would argue that people do not "allow" themselves to build up an addiction - that there is a genetic predispostion as well as contributing factors with what conditions a child was raised in. Eventually it is something that person needs…

I wonder if he met my Russian girl. ;) Excellent advice. Weekends it is!

Yes, I agree with this. I'm willing to bet the reason you haven't found this yet is because the right guy hasn't popped up, and not because YOU aren't there yet. :) Also agree 100%.

Tough one. I don't believe in fate or any sort of outside destiny. I don't think that everyone necessarily is granted a birth right to love and happiness, even though I do believe everyone DESERVES it but it takes hard work and a little luck. I've also kind of been tossing around the idea lately that any two people could…

Please take me out the bars you go to, I have to see this. :)

I actually prefer it. I don't drink, so it makes for a better relationship. I like to get up early on the weekends, drive somewhere far away from the city traffic, and go hiking. That's a tough sell to someone who has been up until 3AM pounding shots of whiskey. For those who do both - you're a champion. ;) At 21, I can…

Agreed, farmer's markets and certain roadside stands.

Thanks! :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lm8y5ejUuUU Sort of nsfw.

I understand the "feeling uncomfortable" part and agree with you. I wish I could never feel jealousy, but I know it slips in here and there. That's a tough one. I know that, personally, I would not feel comfortable talking to my guy friends about my relationship issues - at least nothing more than surface level stuff. I do…

Anna, I hope this weekend reboots you as well!

Sweet! Have fun! I recently came across this complete set of outdoor laser tag rifles, turret, and home base stations: http://www.wowwee.com/en/products/toys/light-strike I think I might buy a set and try to get some people together for a combo camping / forest laser tag extravaganza. Not this weekend, but eventually.

What if it was a long time female friend? Maybe they went to college together and had some crazy times with nothing sexual ever. It seems to me this would be the perfect person for him to discuss his relationship with. People need a sounding board with no chaperone present.

Come on people, this thread is not real. The OP is a fake account with no friends and no other posts. The profile picture is stolen from the Internet and is all over the place.

I would be cool with it. I would also not want to be in a relationship with anyone who tried to tell me who I could and couldn't be friends with. I admit it would be weird if the girl I was in a relationship with went out and met a new guy BFF during our relationship. I would probably be suspicious that the dude was trying…

Wouldn't be surprised. The first major red flag was when she made a comment about not minding if she got accidentally pregnant. Looking back on this, that is the exact moment I should have ran. A big music festival, Korn is playing along with a ton of other bands.

That's gotta be it. Have you thought about changing it? SirFartBoner should do the trick. Ladies love a boner fart, but no one loves a fart boner.

I do really hope she is happy. It just wasn't going to work out that way for us. My problem was that she would not come out and say she was looking for a man to take care of her. I always got the feeling she was doing a bit of acting to come off as the type of person she assumed I wanted to be with. I honestly wasn't sure,…

San Francisco! I love the West Coast all up and down, but I think I will always end up back in SF.

Yeah, I fell in to the stereotype. She was already living here in the states though, employed, going to school to advance herself and career, all the normal things you would expect from anyone else. I've lived in a foreign country as an immigrant before. I made a ton of great friends there who were citizens or other…

Oh, we broke up maybe 6 months ago. I get the impression she must have JUST met this guy though if she was inviting me to the concert with her. Who knows though. I hope it works out well for them, but it definitely wasn't for me. edit: the bills thing is an oversimplification, just trying to keep it short. :)