kyleekay10 Member

lol'd IRL

BOOM. Good to know

I want to learn how to make them (my stepmom's mom is Hispanic and makes BOMB tortillas) but then I think I'd make them all the time and JSF

because stereotypes. or something. But boo to being out. I ran out last night and I was sad... I could eat an entire package of tortillas without blinking an eye. Dooo eeeett. It's different, but I think you'll like it.

1200 seems very low considering the fact that you're breastfeeding. I would consult your doctor in this case, to make sure you (and the baby) are getting proper nutrients.

I am! I used to use OJ a lot for cereal. Have any tortillas and cheese? Cheese rollups are good too.

I think they're funny. I would assume the majority of people write those with the intent of being humorous.

Surprisingly I like that combo

Totally agree.

What you quoted:

I have no issue with any of the points you've made. I think the tricky part is knowing what you want before you get married.

I see- well best of luck to you, sincerely. :flowerforyou:

:huh: It is certainly relevant to your post. You said you didn't like/disagreed with the premise of clean eaters choosing that lifestyle for superiority reasons, and then claimed they likely did it for health benefits. I then went on to say that your rebuttal still hints that they are doing it for superiority reasons,…

Interesting. Was that something your parents wanted you to do, or did you ask them to pick someone out for you? If it doesn't work out with this guy will you ask them to pick someone else or find someone on your own? Again I'm honestly just curious, so I hope you don't read my questions in a negative way. :flowerforyou:

Then you're one of the lucky few who can just eat intuitively. That is not the case for many people who are trying to lose weight. I just meant to highlight that no matter what you're eating, calories matter. You can eat 100% clean, but if you're eating in surplus, you will gain.

I'm honestly curious- do you live outside of the US where this is common practice or something?

Right, which is part of the "trying to make it work" equation- which I agree with. What happens when the other person stops trying or simply half-*kitten* it? That was the case with my marriage. My husband simply didn't care enough. I'm sorry, but vow or no vow, I wasn't going to deal with that the rest of my life.…

Color me surprised. Even in your rebuttal, you're saying they likely do it for health. If that's the reason I suspect they still think there are superior health benefits to eating clean versus following IIFYM. So, superiority is still a factor. This is in contrast to IIFYMers who follow that "philosophy" simply because…

Marriage didn't really factor love into the equation, back in the day. In today's society? Marriage is absolutely about love- not entirely, but that is a huge part of it. In today's world, would you marry someone sans-love just because you were supposed to make a commitment? No? Then why would you stay if the love has…

Now I want lucky charms. :angry:

Huh? Why does eating certain foods magically make calories irrelevant?

I think what you're seeing, like someone else mentioned, is skewed. People who are happy are less likely to post about their marriage- especially on a fitness forum. You will *always* see a negative trend in almost everything, because people who are mad/upset/unhappy are far more likely to rant about it. You also have to…

Here's a question for your question, OP: Should promises really mean more than potentially spending the rest of your *one* life completely unhappy, just because you said "I do"? Some people probably back out of marriages far too quickly and with too little effort. But once the effort to resolve the issues has been put in,…

Step 1) Make sure your calorie counting is accurate and you are not eating more than you think Step 2) If you find out that you are in fact netting 500 cals/day, EAT MORE. http://iifym.com/iifym-calculator/

"My husband sabotages me" Followed by an explanation of how you chose to eat things that you maybe shouldn't have. Ok. You ultimately decide what you eat and how you react to your surroundings... don't blame him. ETA: For the record this happens to me, too, and likely everyone on this site. It's not a big deal, just take…

This makes me want to rage-quit. Again I say, please stop making 23 year olds look like nitwits. When you were told "people don't love you" the 'people' they were referring to were us random internet strangers. Not your family. Christ. And again with the lupus... Last post? We'll see.

LOL, Mirey.

We get it. You have lupus. If you want attention for that, start a new thread. I'm just kind of stunned today is a "fabulous mood day" for you, considering all the angry posts you've left here.

Also, this.

Serious response for the OP: Pick up a copy of the Love Dare, and try it out with your husband. It's a great book and I've seen it do wonders for suffering relationships.