MMMendoza007 Member

I used to be into the cheat concept. But somewhere along the line I realized that it was counterintuitive to what I was really looking for. And there dealing with the aftermath as well...

I'm of the same mind. I see a lot of people pay lipservice to a lifestyle change, but hold to the "cheat" day or meal theory. And it seems like a contradiction to me. And now that you mention it, I don't like the implication of dishonesty or breaking rules that goes along with it.

"When people show you who they really are, believe them." I think that's Maya Angelou. and "Do the thing you hate to do most, first." My Mom. and "There's always a price to pay. You can pay it pay it up front, or in the end, but you will pay." My Dad. (Used to use this one often when I complained about my weight in regards…

My remedy is one that feels the best AFTER, not before or while. It's exercise. It releases endorphines in your body. Also afterward, I nice hot bubble bath with candles. Yeah it's cliche, but it works for me. :D

Hi and welcome to you!

Hi and welcome! :)

Looks like you're on the right path. Are you looking for friends?

You look incredible! Very inspiring! Congratulations to you!

I just ordered a variety sample pack from a place. I haven't gotten them in yet, but I've been researching them and now I'm feeling pretty confident that I'm going to like them too. *fingers crossed*

It's a mixed bag for me. I am estranged from one brother. He made the decision to disassociate himself from my parents. *shrug* I don't see him ever. I am extremely close to my Mom, Dad, and sister. My other brother, we have a fairly good relationship. I love my family. All of them. Even the one I never see. :)

I feel your pain. I'm not in that boat so much these days, but I found it difficult at times when I was. How do you handle it? I'd figure a lot of planning has to happen?

Welcome! I'm pulling for you! :)

Very inspirational!

I pass but only because I've had my boobs done. :)

I feel so strongly about this. One week ago, I gave up diet soda. I was a diet Coke, Pepsi, and Dr. Pepper person. I probably drank a 12 pack every two days. I was insanely overboard but couldn't live without them. Then I started to see blood in my urine. And I was like, "Uh, what more do you need?" So I quit. Cold turkey.…

Are you getting any cardio in? I think adding in some time on an elliptical or treadmill or even just walking anywhere will help. p.s. I happen to think what you're currently doing is fantastic and very needed.

I always, no matter what I've eaten or exercised or how good I've been, gain weight around the time of my monthly. Any chance this could be it? (sorry men.)

Glad you're here!

bump

aaaaannnd BUMP!

Apparently y'all....1. did not hear me. and 2. Under estimate the persistance of a coonass. Bump.

Incredible.

Bump, *****es. Give a veteran some love people!

What the hell girl? Come out from behind that tree and share your progress! LOL!

First, thank you for your service. I'm sorry to read about your struggles. But I see some victories in there!! You seem determined and have already made some headway! GO YOU! Welcome and best of luck with your journey!

Welcome you are, and with goals we wish you the best of luck! (I was trying to do Yoda speak. LOL!)

Welcome and best of luck to you! You've certainly given yourself plenty of time to reach your goal!

Hi Sharon! Congratulations on winning your battle with cancer!!! Welcome!!

Welcome! Holla if you need a pep talk! :D

As a person who's normally been the heavy one in a relationship, I always wished my partners would leave me the hell alone. I knew they meant well. I knew they did it out of love (well one of them). But it wasn't something someone could jump start in me. I only lost the weight when I came to the decision. Just as I am the…