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lol omg, this is scary stuff. if it wasnt for the internet i dont think id have ever had a date in my life.

im gonna weigh in with my ideal male since theres no ladies version. I love men that are talllll like 6`2+ the taller the better with a broad thick build. muscular, big chest, thick arms, and some belly. though ive been attracted to men of all different body types.

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my ex boyfriend

Ive always wanted to go to ameteur night! (to watch, not to dance, just to clarify). I appreciate the female form and i thought going to the peelers would make me feel insecure but it actuially makes me feel empowered as a woman(until their set is over and they start working for loonies). Ive always been uncomfortable at…

beards(x1000 if they're ginger) men that have female dogs they treat like princesses(or at least have gotten over their "im a dude" syndrome and have neutered their boy dog) hand or neck tattoos (or both!) dreads, mohawks, shaved heads

I had a pet python named Elvira.And i'm assuming i used a 1 instead of an i because "elvira" was taken.

oh, shes lovely. 10/10

Men and women have very different needs in a relationship. and beyond that different men and different women have different needs in a relationship. I find us women often have our feelings hurt by men who should "know better" but the reality is, youre both adults, and you both have different needs, so you can't be upset…

Eat what you want and enjoy it,.if you limit everything you eat, everyday you'll fall off the wagon. Every once in a while going crazy and enjoying a meal just because you love it and it tastes good, instead of eating ____ because it has __ amount of callories is realistic. Allow yourself this meal without shame or guilt…

fruit, cottage cheese, chicken breast, nuts or seeds, popcorn, salad, hummus with crackers or veggies, soup

Ive been doing pretty well lately cutting out chocolate and chips. instead i munch on pumpklin or sunflower seeds which are loaded with salt, but i still think the switch off was beneficial.

I also don't drink alcohol. I might have 1 or 2 cocktails a couple times a year, but i hate the feeling of "drunk" so i stay away. I unfortunately drink diet coke like its going out of style though. and I prefer my stinky green to alcohol and the munchies are intense lol. I just cant get ahead.

cheesecake(i like my cake without cheese :P) and pies/muffins or anything cooked or baked containing fruit, it grosses me out. i like my fruit raw or not at all.

sometimes i can find fat free cottage cheese and its a great way to get a lot of protein with few calories. and ive said the same thing in a bunch of threads today but faux meats are very high in protein and low in calories, though some are DEFINITELY better tasting than others.

my local farmers market is a complete bust unfortunately :( $15 for a bag of potatoes? no thank you

I just made these with mozzarella parmasean and clubhouse `garlic plus`seasoning. ill make em again.

I dont know how accurate the protein deficiency argument is. Theres a girl on youtube called freelea(or something similar) that is a personal trainer and she eats a 95% fruits diet. but she eats like thousands of calories of fruit a day. like a case of oranges for one meal. shes in incredible shape. I recently went…

ive been using crystal light and its helped me SO much. and i vote aainst ice cold water. its easier for me to down a big glass at once then sip on it over a length of time and ice cold water hurts my sensitive teeth and gives brain freezes.

what about fruit? some of my favs are pineapple, white/green grapes, or kiwi. I dont always eat them but when i do im like "why dont i eat this everyday? its like candy!". you could also try berries or grapefruit with a zero calorie artificial sweetener on them.

fat free cottage cheese is high in protein. also faux meats are very high in protein and take no time to cook from frozen.

Whats SSS stand for? and can i start a week late?

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oh, and go make a ticker! 12 lbs doesn't seem like much at all when i think about how much i weigh in total. but when i see those stars on my ticker i realize it is a very good step towards me making it out of the 200s! the visual really makes me proud!

You really have to want it. If you aren't motivated, its not going to happen. You need to use your food journal, it will make you very aware of what you're putting in your mouth. You have to find a way that works for you. put a stationary bike in front of the TV. I bought a recumbent one that doesn't hurt my butt like an…

I have no idea, but I will tell you this. I drink a LOT of it, and switching to diet coke instead of regular a few months back didn't make any difference on the scale for me. My sister said she lost 30lbs in a year when she switched but it didn't work for me. I don't cringe about doing my food journal now though lol.

I'm single now, but I've never hid my weight from a boyfriend, and I don't have a problem telling my friends either.