kobashi

bump. I'm curious about this also

I love how you picked lot of things that are out of our control.

That is what we do. We go to Jump City. They play and we talk. I don't know how these could lead up to anything romantic though, lol.

It's hard not to involve the kids when we have them anytime we don't work. I do see your point though. This is another reason why I didn't date for so long.

It's very rough for me and her though. We work nonstop and when we aren't working we both spend time with our children. So it's like do we neglect our child to date someone? Or do we bring them along so that they can play and we can talk...

UPDATE: Last night after work me, her and a co worker went out to IHOP for dinner. We had a pretty good time goofing off and ended up sitting outside of IHOP talking for three hours until 3am. She sent me a text last night saying that "She loved getting to see me." I don't know exactly how to take that but this morning we…

Well work ethic is something I was raised on. So being a workaholic is a must in the finance field. At least at my level, maybe someday I can just sit around while someone else works their rear end off.

You just ruined the surprise!

I am not a job snob, but I do want someone with goals. Also someone who is working on their education or has their education. I just want someone motivated. Oh yeah, beautiful, smart, and having similar interests. Also health conscious.

Working on it now... Wish me luck.

Okay. I text her last night and told her that "I've missed you!" since I hadn't seen her and she said "I was thinking that today, I forgot you weren't working" Is that a blow off? Or am I reading too much into it?

Yeah but I like her a lot. It's not about her looks like with most. It's with her personality. We have better discussion than I have ever had with a woman in my life. Also, we have a lot in common. We both raise our children the same. We are both hard workers with strong life goals. I didn't plan on dating anyone since all…

I'll go with #4.. I just assumed that the empty the spot at the bottom was #4 and I would prefer to see a lady in that.

I don't want things at work to be awkward though. I am afraid if I make a move that it could really change how things have to be at work and I really just enjoy talking to her and being around her. I don't know. I am worried though.. I have an issue with loving the chase and then when I catch it I don't want it anymore.…

I am there with you on most of what you said. I think my issue is I go for woman who either A) will never be with me seriously or B) have other issues that make them unavailable to me. I always pay when I go on a date that I initiated. If they invited me, it might be different.. I don't hurt over letting a woman buy me…

As I was posting this, she text me and asked how camping went. I can't exactly avoid her over the weekend. We work together on Saturday and see each other a few times a day on Saturday and Sunday. We have regularly went out with a group on Saturday night because we all close together. This may seem so dumb and make me…

You look 10 years younger and so much more healthy. Congrats on your new self! :D

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After work on Saturday, I went to IHOP with some of my coworkers. Then we went to seductions which was interesting. I am finding that my biggest issue isn't my looks, its my social awkwardness. I had great time and it made it not quite so bad to work all the time.

Health and confidence are key. I think looks are a lot less important once you reach that point.

Yeah.. There are quite a few males on here. Go read the success stories. Very awesome to read.

Yeah getting much better now...

Fixed. Sorry.

Me 53 lbs down.. Day 90

I love to walk. I am thinking more towards the future. I will always walk daily. I find ways to even walk during work such as on my lunch break having a light lunch and walking for 30 minutes.

I don't obsess as much as I miss the instant gratification. At one point, I was losing .6 lbs a day, now it stays the same for a few days and then goes down after 5-6 days. I still use the scale every morning, but not as a guide just for my own knowledge. I don't let it get me down.

Week 8 Lifestyle Change - 244 lbs Still can't see a difference but others have.

Great job! Thanks for the motivation!

You look smokin! Congrats and thanks for the motivation! :"