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the eye is drawn to contrasts - the eye is drawn to the line between short & flesh. if you have that line around the fattest part of your thigh then the eye will be drawn to the fattest part of your thigh. s'not rocket science.

the legs are fine, the shorts are really unflattering. buy something with a decent cut!

I will never get married either. I refuse to give the state & legal system the power to decide when I can and can't consider myself out of a relationship. I refuse to put myself in the position where I would have to pay lawyers a small fortune and explain to the law why I would like to be excused now.

unless his insurance stipulates that his spouse must be boinked by him and in love with him, how is it fraud? lots of couples drift into just good friends anyway, and nobody calls that fraud.

I don't mind being taxed to pay for other people's kids, because I think every adult carries a duty of care towards every child, but I do object to people having vast families if they never intend to work in order to support them. actually, I think it's a bit selfish and short sighted to have vast families anyway, though I…

I like school uniforms. what I don't like is the growing trend towards outrageously expensive uniform, available through only one outlet, often with the outlet difficult, expensive or even impossible to access for parents without transport, internet access and/or credit/debit cards. i'm fortunate enough to have transport…

if someone grabs my flesh without asking, I go straight to threats of assault charges (which I would absolutely follow through on). I don't give a damn who they are, my body is MY body. ...which might be why people don't pinch me.

thanks!:)

towards, right?

while that post was not overtly homophobic, I would wager that the poster is. though it's not as obvious as him feeling intimidated by all the attractive men here. I can understand him feeling that though. some of these guys are almost godlike in physical perfection. drooling over women isn't challenging.

creepy *runs a mile*

maybe you're filling in something wrong. under settings make sure current & goal are entered correctly, then make sure the 'what is your goal' box is set to gain.

this. I really don't get the need to share every detail. and then you perfect the eye roll, because people with irrational and unreasonable points are really not worth arguing with.

diet will make you look good. exercise will make you look good NAKED! aside from that, who wants to be skinny and unhealthy?

hmm... does your boyfriend weigh 100 pounds? if he really cared he's research before pushing you into some crazy diet.

my father was big steve to his friends. never had an ounce of fat on him. just a muscular guy. ...on the plus side, if they still call you big mike once the weight is off, it'll make he ladies curious.

bless your complete inability to read subtleties :flowerforyou:

conditioning, innit? my mother is a deranged old bat though... and I don't judge all by her standards.

you can see why people end up holding those views when they're raised in that dysfunctional environment.

he said those things only because he's jealous of me. I strongly suspect I get more lady action than he does.

^^cattiness. you must be jealous of me.

if women were catty to beautiful women, I would be subjected to cattiness constantly.

he's right though. everything I do is attractive and compelling. and anyone objecting to being labelled is playing victim.

and i'm not raging. I told you, I have tummy ache. and none of you meanies have provided any sympathy at all!

why would making sweeping, negative generalisations about people based on gender be morally better than making sweeping, negative generalisations about people based on colour? you dismissing what I see as justified offence to an insult aimed directly at me, as a woman, as silly is also pretty insulting.

^^assumptions on motivations.

and now I must go vomit. I demand sympathy!

I think it's justified rage. but i'm not raging today because I have a tummy ache.

as I said in my post, out, a lot of the time I see perfectly justified loathing being dismissed as jealousy because the participants are female. I was really well behaved and said it without calling people names. just this once.

my sister has asked a billion times how I stay slim. she refuses to believe I don't starve, purge or pill. I know exactly what 'wtf' face you mean! with a hint of 'yeah right!' thrown in.