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sometimes that apparent disinterest is just attempting to shut off from emotions & guilt & the risk of hurting you further. at least until you're over it.

i beg to differ. we're all flawed and we all screw up. you'd be hard pressed to find a person who has always been without sin. in her situation, once i was absolutely over him, i made contact and recovered the friendship. but that only works if you can get over them and forgive them. i got... an apology, an explanation, a…

So, you all get slightly out of breath while riding? Much as a dig bikes, this thread has the aroma of wishful thinking.

find the nearest dog and put the meat in there. turkey meat is nasty.

i suggest talking to a physio. they can give you exercises that won't make your back any worse. if not, you could seriously regret risking your spinal health on the workout advice of unqualified internet strangers.

the OP didn't even ask about spot reduction.

or it could be that you need to strengthen your core.

fyp :smile:

''My mother died'' Lift heavy ''I caught bubonic plague'' Try lifting heavier. I'm a fan of heavy lifting but it's not the cure for everything.

Only once. But he's not a bad person. He has issues. Don't we all? I made the effort, after the dust settled, to be friends. I don't regret our time together. Hopefully, one day, he'll meet the right girl and get past this.

i would never say anything to a stranger about peeing in the water, simply because i work with so many people who have continence issues. the purple indicator is beyond cruel for people with this problem. if i knew the person well enough to know for certain it wasn't a health issue then, yes, i would say something.…

i LOVE that my arms are bulky (for a woman and in proportion to the rest of my body.) from lifting. yes, i know it doesn't show in my av. i'm not taking a pic just for this thread. the only downside is finding tops that will fit my arms now without being too big everywhere else. and, yeah, people do comment. but i think…

The accusatory tone of so many of the responses is intriguing.

Usually.

shouldn't be telling people to eat less before you know what they're eating now.

i'm not sure what made me laugh more... the food diary police, defriending people for soda sinning, or the thread drama that followed. either way, tyvm for the entertainment!

you're not the boss of him.

excuse me but that's ABUSE!

stripes are slimming. uh huh.

if there were easy, safe pills you could pop to lose weight then doctors would be handing them out. there aren't. anything that really works needs medical supervision because they just aren't safe otherwise. you have a baby? you have far better things to spend your money on!

my kids tell me i look great compared to their friend's moms. :smile: just keep working out, keep eating right and, eventually, your kids will say that. and when they do you'll feel fantastic!

i have an 'issue' too. 'cept mine skips & pauses rather than speeding. weights are a lot better than cardio, for me. my bigger pain in the butt is that i can't use a HRM, because they think they're losing contact all the time.

and here is your mistake. you owe NOBODY an explanation! your body, your choice. they have no more right to pressure you into food than they have to pressure you into sex. same deal. my advice would be to quit explaining yourself. be a brick wall on this subject.

IMO, it's just not worth the risks unless there's something traumatically wrong.

my ex was like that. in the end i just decided it was his own responsibility, not mine. i'm not his mother and it's not my job to control his sleep for him. it's completely unfair for him to expect you to wake him if he knows he's cranky and snaps at you if you do. if he knows he doesn't want to sleep then he should stay…

so you were upset and you over indulged? never mind! that was yesterday. today you need to get back up on your feet. you need to show that kid that it's ok for her to go, that she doesn't need to feel guilty. you need to start taking care of your physical and mental health, buy something yummy and healthy, make yourself…

you never told me you were married, you cad. i feel so cheap and used...

three seconds.

all three. two without the third would suck. and when i say 'looks' i don't mean they need to be brad pitt, but they need to be attractive to me.

that's ok, i like that in a guy. a gent in the street and a sadistic *kitten* in the bedroom.