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i think there is a place for prides as long as there is struggle round the world (such as in my old country for one!), and everyone in the very most tolerant society has to remember those in the least. But pride can do both, it can be fun and also serious, in a way I think manchester got the RIGHT, it just could do with…

Felling a bit better now, that particular drama has passed for a time, I think I will be OK for a little, I am feeling motivated to clean living an excercise. I just hope I can eat healthy on my way!! xxxxx

Well said! I think it must be hard for bisexuals because people gonna say 'so you straight now' if you are with the opposite sex, then say you're gay when you with the same sex. I mean, I get that a tiny bit because I am gay but nearly never have any kind of love life... but people still all know I am gay and don't dismiss…

i guess you must be slimmer or fitter or just better at martial arts. i just could not do it myself. But as i say, i have a different hobby (well it is my job and hobby!) making accessories for home and to wear, with sewing. Craft stuff, that is my thing. It is no better or worse than any hobby for sure it is better than…

I don't think food or even overeating make me a bad catholic, I mean it helps me, no good rejecting my faith. God knows am not perfect haha!! I am too fat for martial arts, i do finding making things with my sewing and crafts helps though, like distraction. It is my job and hobby

I will because I always do! I am a good catholic, if nothing else :D xxxx

today is sooo much better than the last couple so i think I am on the up, i just keep on keepin on... I just got to keep it in check because I know how much i love stuff that makes me feel good!!

being gay is likea fetish? i don't understand, am not kinky! idk maybe i got it wrong? for me what attracts me to men is their appearence as a whole and also the dynamic i can have with a man like feelin protected and all that, like the strength and masculinity, i can't even expalin it, its a whole package and a dynamic…

I will never know what a panssexual is, even once I am told, I just don't get it. I don'tlike it when people do all that thing saying 'oh I love people not body parts', I mean, i get what they saying but it makes me feel like they think they are really deep and unshallow and the rest of us just see people as a walking ****…

haha that what in always say, i hope i can become lovable before i meet my love!!!

Compliments!!!!!! I like people to say i look nice, hehehehe. sometimes i tell people about how much weight i lost so far so they have to be all like 'oh yeah, well done, i can see the difference' LOL!! Dancing helps also. And planning new things I can sew. SEWING!!! <33333 xxxx

See this seems to be the gernal view here, and partly I see the point, but I do think that MFP is a tool to use as you see fit, in whatever way helps you. I don't log everything, as I said, and often that is about not putting bad stuff, as it is things like takeaway and tubs of ice cream rather than the little stuff (i do…

I sometimes miss out really bad stuff, like if I get a takeaway very late at night, or eat like a whole packet of biscuits. I mean, these things don't happen that often anymore and if they do I usually log them but sometimes is like... nah, we pretend that never happened. It is just embarrassing and also akward for my…

Hello thankyou for the welcome. Yeeeah, i think i somewhat misjudged the mood there, I thought it would be an interesting debate, but i got that wrong, sorry bout that if i caused some upset i didn't mean to. I still have my own views but i have to learn to know when to say and when not to! i thought i would just be…

I sometimes find it hard to be called queer, even as a group because if remind me of terrible times when this word has been used to me. I think I need to get some help to change my perception of the word because the world has changed. I am left behind aged only 21. The word is a brilliant empowering thing, well that is how…

Hello Nix! Iam in the north also UK!I am 21years old, I am a man called Joselito, I am gay. I lost 18lbs so far, about 255lbs to go!!! May I add you?I can be a good cheerleader too!! xxxx

Example like< I heard about this chicken shop situation in the USA, like the owner is not allowed to hold a personal opinion. Like in the UK, Nick Clegg dismisses everyone who is against gay marriage as a bigot, without even a care. your view on gay marriage is the new way of showing you are intelligent and 'liberal' and a…

I am though, I am very special.But I never disrespect to my parents, for one thing they created me so the was pretty special of them, hehehehe xxxx (age 21)

OMG I have to admit that sounds soooo yummy lol. I always wobbled between shame and trying to disguise my habits (eg. the pretending its for too people trick) and times when I couldn't even hide it and almost gave up... i almost got defiant about it, like 'yeah am eating 2 meals and a dessert designed for sharing to…

OMG I would be sooooooooooooo embarraased!!!!!!!!!!!!!! awww, poor you!!! I don't minding sharing anything wiyh lovely people here but people on FB don't all going to understand plus i'll have see them in person after! YES about Greggs too. I live in Newcastle, the home of Greggs. there are 12 or somthin in our town centre…

Oh wow, me too. When I was about 16, for all I was lighter than I am now, I think that was my peak of disordered eating-not somuch in the amount i ate (though it was loads) but in the distress i experienced around eating. I used to be obsessed with getting the MOST food, regardless of type. Eating 9out was very unpleasant…

I'm not sure exactly but it seems to have interested many people. I am a catholic so I 'get' the confessional thing, it is like ummm... a spiritual purge? I think also it makes us realise we aren't alone, there are other people with such bad habits are working to over come them and even suceeded, I guess it shows it it can…

Oh wow, just evertyhing anyone says about eating things by the packet! I try now to buy things not in big packets but it is hard as the seldom come in individuual packaging. It is just that I always was terrible at umm... LEAVING food. If there is a packet, I wanted to empty it; he food always run out before my appetite! I…

I said nothing, it just an image of Jesse Garcia is all http://www.imdb.com/media/rm1786812416/tt0451176 for the ladies to enjoy, if you like!!xxxx

Thank you... what exactly do you mean by other issues? sorry. Thanks everyone

I don't identify as queer because I am not queer am a normal guy, the ones who ever call me that used for an insult, they saying queer and freak and all these things. I am a gay guy, that is all. I am not gay because of any reason except for fancying men. I have a job making alterations and mending clothing, creating…

I don't hate myself for my weight, I hate myself sometimes because I am bad at stuff and my size just makes it worse really. OMGosh, you are sweet and nice and positive.

Hello, thank you! Well, it is so crazy because I DO have so much to be happy about in my life bu still I feel the need to use food for my happiness. I don't know why. I wish I could get over that. I suppose it is sort of the taste and quantity. Like t feel satisfied I need to have loads. I worry I'll just not be able to…

Definitely not, I mean, I have hope in myself for one thing and the weight I have lost so far is proof I'm not. I think I need to clarify that it isn't for often that I purposely add it wrong, and I have lost weight, like i am trying really hard. Perfection is not possible for me, like I think I get some 4500cal days too…

LOL... at least am HONEST about not being honest :D!!!