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i admire those whodo. exercise and getting up early are NOT things i enjoy so if i am tryna exercise is have to scedule it in for later in the day else it never gonna happen,

In general I dislike stereotypes,like racial or national. Whole load of stereotypes and generalisation bout French women being thin and how they do it, how the children is etc... nah, I don't think we can make the generalisation, i bet there are plenty of women in france with a weight problem.

I have a friend who is French and live in France, he has definitely refered to snacking before. How come they sell biscuits (British for cookie, I don't mean whatever American biscuit is) in that country? I don't think people eat biscuits for their meal. I would guess snacking is less usual, but not like it don't happen.

Hmmm, I can maybe see that the 'system' re family courts/custody favours women, but the 'system' in general is much more in men's favour. And I am a man. Oh wow, I do not beleive that a woman getting pregnant to snare a man is common at all. I don't see how you could have any evidence on this, because I don't what this…

5'6, 380lbs ish.... could be anything from 3xl to 6xl as there seems to be no consistent standard to these things and it depdens what fit i want. i also have some shirts i wear but can't button (like nowhere near) but they ok with a t shirt under, open. too much anyways. whatever is the biggest they have. hardly fit any…

Ha ha, it truelly is wonderful living in this enlightened society :/ I think there is an interesting point about the different ways that men and women are 'punished' by society for being obese. To be sure, BOTH encounter it, but slightly differently. I would say women get the worse deal because women are much more judged…

No inequality? Wow, as a man, it is great to find out that you women don't have sexism to deal with anymore at all. I hope racism, homophobia, ablism etc will soon be entirely eradicated in the same way. That's a real weight off my shoulders.

It's OK, I am quite sure what I said still stands, it is my sincerely held beleifs, maybe no one was questioning, but good to put it out there, how am so proud of my mother and everything. These wonderful, wonderful women!

I have not read all of this but FOR ANYONE HAVING A GO AT WORKING MOTHERS- My mother worked long and hard when I was growing up. She did it to support us and also because she wanted to do things outside the home. She is not only a wonderful mother but a wonderful WOMAN and I admire her so much, for everything she does, and…

what an interesting discussion, always wondered about this. i dont judge anyone for their size nd i HATE people judging me for mine, like thinking i am lazy, stupid, selfish or anything else just because i am obese. I am not these things. I am unhealthy though. lots of people claim 'health at every size' and if they r…

(I am a man by the way) In some ways, it never occured to me at all that she would mind me having the biscuits as such, like i didn't think she'd miss them. i don't know if she cares about that or not. She phoned me 3 times today, i pick up the 3rd time and she said how much she loves me and everything, I said, you too. I…

Thanks for all your helps. still feeling messed up today and don't know what to do. i text my sister saying i don't know what we can do, i didnt answer when she called though. tough times.

i think we both need to acknowlege things- me that it hurts her, and her that it hurts me. i suppose i never considered what i ate to be particularly ecessive (I can eat SO much more than that), hence i was so shocked at her reaction i guess

I appreciate compliments on my hardwork, effort and progress, great when ppl notice. i have mixed feelings about compliments on weightloss as i feel like it suggests they felt it was bad when i was bigger. if that makes sense. for all they know i could have been happy at my biggest and got an illness causes weightloss.

part of me though feel like how come she never there any more asking me about or helping me, like she don't care that i am suffering with it alone she only cares when its in her house affecting her. so why am i the only selfish 1? am probably being unreasonable, just something i felt. i guess thats the size of it allison…

Yeah she reckons I need to get back on the wagon a bit more... she isprobably right there. Ha ha, I have never been called mature before, usually people think i am a drama queen, and it is true lol! But am a good guy too, I was hurt but also my sister was, and I don't want my sister hurt so I need to reflect on what…

Yeah. I know it was a place of caring. at first i thought it was blunt, rude and also unreasoanble. but i guess i can see i caused her hurt which either way is not good. i suppose part of me thought i didnt eat that much (the biscuits were like, cookies), and part of me also thought, she knows me, knows my eating habits…

Yeah. I'm still actually about 200lbs off maintainence as it happens so I have time to think about it. I want to be a Zumba instructor maybe also teach dancing, stuff like that as well as my normal work. I think a healthy relationship with food is hardest of all, and i think it is needed for maintainence.

Please? It would mean the world to me.

Aww, thank you. I was really looking for a little constructive advice, because it is only recently myself I got the courage to try and figure these things out (ironically, at the same time as I am actually losing weight). I kow some people feel too much shame or whatever and I am lucky not to be burdened with that. But…

Idk, it is not about huge accomdations; often a little kindness, creative thinking and tolerance from both sides, solutions can be found. It is not about people not being bothered to lose weight. I am very bothered to lose weight, I didn't lose 50lbs(so far!) without considerable effort. But what if I wanted to go to the…

I can't live a restircted life, I can't wait around for some better future, the good times is now :) If it takes having some awkward conversaions, so be it. I find most customer service people are very nice! Here to a great present and future!

Me! I am 21year old man, 350lbs ish down from 400lbs woohoo! Good luck with your journey!! xx

I have no fear, I am not scared of it... obesity is not for the faint hearted... dieting even less so!!

Oishii, from my experience, it is unbeleivably expensive!! This is the lesser told motive to change, for me at least... the cost of eating like this is so very much, a really drain on resources. It makes me worryed that if I get made redundant (always very possible!), I won't be able to cope. I sometimes try go to cheap…

I have days like that too sometimes, the point is trying to not do it everyday and learn some good habits on the good days. sounds yummy though!! Well done on your progress.

I think it sounds OK. I wouldn't want a hard body, it'snot for me.

The version I heard was skinny girls look good in clothes, CURVEY girls look good naked (said by a curvy girl obvs). My brother is so mean, he totally disagreed and said it was mixed up because skinny girls look bad in clothes because they don't fill them nice they are drowned in them, but tey look hot naked, without flab…

Oh my god. She is SO skinny... no knocking it but she is NO way skinny fat. if she was any less fat she would be like, tooo thin maybes.

love your look!!