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Lol, I wondered if I would make a confusion with this- to be clear I mean brothers in the biological sense, not the black guy sense, like all brothers (male siblings) are protective of their sisters. I dunno if it is the same between a white woman and black man. My instinct says not, because the power dynamic is different.…

Race may or maynot be relevant to this... I feel it is because it certainly coloured his interactions with us! He wouldn't be even talking to white girls. Race was very relevant to the dynamic... that he 'loved' her but felt he was entitled to something just for feeling, like as a black woman she should be all grateful and…

Well, not intrinsically, only if you considered yourself to be really charitable and good, like you was the new Nelson Mandela for feeling that way. And if you like them for stereotypical reasons of what a black man is, rather than as individuals. But am sure you don't Thing is this was my sister, and I think people who…

i work in fashion and textiles. small clothes are fiddlier to make so can often take longer. Maybe you can may more?

i dont see why that means heavier people are benefitting more from it though, so why pay more? They are actually receivong a poorer service due to the rudeness so that should cancel it out and mean they pay less i figure.

it be 27th March today. Monday is the easter bank holiday horay

Yeah.. I am just learning to let go. I am waiting for a new love so I can recover from this, but maybe i shouldn't I should try and be happy. Easier said than done, hmmm

they are probably the second best thing to love! a stop gap i guess!

Thanks. Just feel empty sometimes. if it was just infatuation, it was the most real and true emotions. Nothing else real like that. I have a hole to fill

i hope the rest pf my life is not just a come down to this speical time xxx

thats not even funny what a terrible thing to happen :( I hope one day you can get confidence for shorts again. I bet you looked lovely then and still now. they probably just noticed it was first time you wore them and decided to make you feel bad. Kids are awful sometimes xxxxxxxxxxx

awwww you are a real gent for letting everyone beleive that!! i guess that was her embarrassing fatty moment.

omg we also did a thing in physics that involved being weighed, i just used my friends data haha. also one time in maths we talked bout averages andthe teacher thought it ok to talk about average weights and how i would be the outlier or something!!!!! never mind kids, teachers can be so cruel, they dont realise kids is…

Ihave had many a clothing misshap, part of the reason i got into sewing lol. Speaking of choir, I was once in one, there was a performance coming up so we all had put our size for tshirt of a piece of paper being passed round, so they can make t shirt with the name on for us. Nothing happened but for real i make sure to be…

This sounds amazing, i wish my dr mentioned this one!! If I could get medication that also helped surpress appetite with making me feel better, would be sooo good!! i have problems also with binge eating/compulisve eating.

very helpful... so is it that they all increase appetite or cause weight gain in itself, or both? the dr only really mentioned ssri ones... i am so so worried bout putting the weight back on, its been so hard losing the 55lbs i have so far, but also i hate being this unhappy and unstable mood, idk what to do :(

cilatoprom is cipramil or celexa sertraline is zoloft and lustral mirtazapine is Remeron, Avanza, Zispin if anyone was unsure the thing xxx

thanks everyone!! Yeah, I am still morbidly obese in my BMI, but I am slightly dubious about bmi so I am sort of going off how I feel, and I know I feel sooo much better. But yeah, you right, I don't know how much better I will feel at even lower weight til I try so maybe keep on keeping on! I am enjoying my lifestyle; the…

does anyone esle care to help me out here? I would appreciate advice.xx

i know girls with thigh gap who is beautiful inside and out, I think people have to stop picking on them so much. They always getting hassle for being skinny and I still believe it is from jealousy. people who arent jealous dont act unkind like that to someone

Why so few milk first people? Can I get some support for the milk first method? You know it makes sense! ;)

I think milk first because else you get a greasy film on top (but this might only be in soft water areas, not sure) I am a recent convert after years of going water first. I did wonder if it would brew properly but I've found it actually does. BUT I do see the brewing without the milk argument. I suppose this is why…

i read everyone's contribution fully. I can see why some people don't wish for one themselves but anyone who b*tches about other people's bodies and is nasty about them are probably just jealous, takes a lot of bitterness to produce bile like that. People should be kind, and also accepting of individual difference. Plus if…

Silly geese! I got it perfectly correct... not everyone wants thigh gap but idiots who critisise other people for having it are obviously jealous and awful people.

yeah, ppl who b*tch about thigh gap probably want one and are jealous. nothing wrong with it! x

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i only date whites tbh. nah j/k i dated a white guy, then a slightly taupe guy, then a oriental, then a hispanic, but then i met a relly drk black guyi likedbut ihad to wait a bit for him because i hadn't worked through the colour spectrum yet nd i would probably lose track if i went out of sequence. so I dated a middle…

what race hispanics? hehehe HOW are hispanics 'plain' :0?? and what is plain about love and race? u go date some blacks so you can make a rainbow colour and show of how esoteric you are with a black lover aaaaaaaaaaa

i transcend race, when you have a tick box for that i dont even fit in it, i am unique, i datethe human race, i see gender because i have a one way sexuality, i see race because im not blind, but i dont have a fetish or attraction for a special race... totally trascend race mi.

ppl recognising the problem themselfs? just puttin it out there!!