YourfriendVJ

Hello, your story is so complex. I don't feel qualified to offer advice. But if you know you want to and need to lose weight, then maybe this time focus on small goals? Would that work for you? That is my plan. In reality, I need to lose 65+ pounds. But instead of tackling the big picture, this time I plan to take…

I am happy for the challenge to help motivate me. I am new, so I will set my goal this time at a conservative 50 miles.

Yes, mine does drastically also! I am glad to read from others that it seems to be par for course. So I will stop worrying and take some of the good advice that has been offered!