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You need to tell him that those comments are hurtful. You need to surround yourself with supportive friends and family. It is not helpful to be put down. You need to be lifted up. He sounds like a jerk.

Definitely better! Way to go!!

Beautiful!

WOW!!! What am amazing transformation! Especially in your midsection. I'm about the same starting weight as you, but I'm a tiny bit taller (5'4"). Can't wait to see this kind of results!

Great job! You look so happy :)

It looks like way more than 20 lbs! Great job!

Someone once told me "Losing weight is hard. Being overweight is hard. Pick your hard." Love that!

Those are the kinds of victories that really keep you motivated! Great work!!!

So wonderful! She must be so proud of you too :)

You look so good! Congratulations on your journey. And your advice is well taken :)

Look at your stomach deflating in those pictures! That is so cool! Congrats!!

O.M.G. What a difference! You look so healthy and happy! Great work!

Congratulations! That is so awesome :)

I'm 42 and struggling to take off about 60 pounds. We can do it!

I'm in. SW 219. Thanks!

WOW!!!

Amazing! Thanks for sharing :)

I'm so sorry you had a bad day and a half. I've been there myself many times. My only advice is to not wait until tomorrow to get back on track. Start now. No more junk for the rest of the day. Have a nice salad or stir fry veggies for dinner, and go take a walk. You can do it! Don't get too down on yourself. Remember, it…

Count me in!!

Whoa! It looks like you lost a LOT more than 35 lbs. Way to go!!!

AMAZING!!!!!!

If you don't believe in divorce, you need to seek counseling, both individual and together. Have you told him that his words are hurtful to you? I hope you can gather the strength to defend yourself from his abusive comments.

Me!! I'm 42 and trying to lose this weight for the last time!

I have tears in my eyes from watching your video. You are amazing.

Wow! You look fantastic! Congrats on your amazing journey!

LOVE it! Your kids are seeing a great role model and an inspiration!

I'm in! I'm 42 years old, 5'4" and 213 lbs. Goal is to be down to 199 by V-day.

You are a hottie! Love the pic of the jeans - very telling, and satisfying, no matter what the scale says!

I think you lost about 20 years! You're beautiful :)

Amazing! Congratulations on your loss!