somemansdream

Thanks guys, I agree that the kids would probably be better off being raised somewhere else since the father is like he is and has no interest in changing for the sake of the kids. I know that there is more to the story since CPS actually gave them a chance to do right before removing the kids. Like most of you said, it is…

Yes, I have seen how things can easily get out of control here. However, its still a great place to get advice and ideas, support etc. Debbie :)

Thanks for sharing this. It is very helpful. Congrats on an amazing job!!

Fantastic job ladies. It is very inspiring to someone like me that is in the beginning of things. Love this!!

I am one of those that love it colder the better. Even resorting to putting it in the freezer though it is already cold. However, I noticed the gym's water was always room temp.

As a college student myself but with a heck of a lot more weight to lose, understand all too well the stresses and how it can make us want to eat. Good luck.

First, I am so amazed that you can do 8.5 miles. I would die. You freaking rock. I second all these comments that these wonderful people have made. DO NOT...cant express that strongly enough...let those losers get to you. You have made progress and you will continue to do so. There are some great tips here including crank…

This is so inspiring to see, thanks for sharing!

Thanks for sharing your story. You faced a lot of challenges and still came out the other side a winner. Any advice for someone who's been doing this road a billioin times? Good luck on the rest of it & I hope recovery goes fast for you. Debbie

Feel free to add me as a friend. I'm Debbie and I have over a hundred pounds to lose. I'm almost at the very beginning so its gonna be a long road for me as well.

This was interesting for me to read. I am currently obese and using her 5 mile dvd to get some workouts in. I am using other dvds and walking outside as well though. I listen to my music with headphones on so I don't have to listen to her talking. I just like music more and it seems to go faster. Thanks for posting this…

Bless you guys!! I mean that with all of my heart. Knowing that I can reach out here and there is someone there that has been there and understands the struggles is just awesome. I actually have tears in my eyes from reading the posts. I have used today to get back on track. Counting my calories, drinking water and walked…

Thank you so much everyone. I am getting back on track today with exercise and counting calories. It was a down moment because it had been several days of doing nothing and I realized there I go again. Debbie :heart:

I was a distributor for a short time. However, I cannot sell a product that I find hard to stay on. Some people managed it and they lost weight. There are also a lot of supplements (yes, big ones too). However, with that said I have to give credit where its due. My lines in my nailbed went away. The celuloss (cant remember…

In college too and there were 6 chapters assigned for the last week...seriously? Anyway. I struggle with getting everything done. I let my final project this last term take over my life. I'm thinking a daily calendar or something? Allot so much time and if its not done more on to the next thing of importance. I was…

Very inspiring--what a great job!! Debbie

My sister and I are both obese ladies. First timers at the gym, the lady that was a trainer was showing us around and explaining things. Sure no problem. So, after she goes back to the office, we decided to work our way around. First up, stability balls. There were two of them and we both were trying to get balanced on…

Thanks guys, I appreciate the advice. I had food poisoning for almost two weeks but the last few days I have been walking my dog or using cleaning for exercise. I just feel like its not enough when I look down and see what my body looks like. I am going to think carefully over this advice and any other that people may…

LMAO--too funny :)

Rayman is right--that moment of reckoning will happen and you will wish you started right now. Everyone falls off the wagon--but you gotta learn to bounce girl--bounce right back up on there. There is a reason you want to lose weight so go for it. Good luck! Debbie

Its a scary idea and it can be overwhelming wondering where do I even start. I know I was that way. General tips: eat at home instead of takeout. Add fruits, veggies, and water to diet. Making changes that cost you nothing like a brand of cheese or bread or pasta--whatever--that has a healthier version and does not bother…

Bless him, I can see how that might upset him. I think people look for a bit humor or harmless fun. However, I have only been here a short time. See if you can get him to come back. I'm glad to be here and find this place since it is so active :) Debbie

The dogs themselves do not smell too bad now. One is a german shepherd/heeler mix and she got some in the face and I cant do anything about that other than avoid getting close to it lol. The house is another issue. Geeze....open windows seem to help the most but if you walk out of the house and leave and come back--you…

Yeah, I was diagnosed just a couple of months ago. However, my levels are good enough that I dont need any special treatments. However, it has interfered with my sleep for many years. Doc said the thing that would help me--lose weight! I read how some of you guys love your treatments--but frankly, a mask scares the hell…

Long ago, it was very rare to see me with water. However, that is the one change that I have managed to master. I have used filtered tap water and bottled both. I have to have my water now--especially in this heat and I live in a desert type environment. One tip, if you struggle drinking water like I did in the…

Lord knows I have this problem and other than knowing that you can turn it around in just the next few minutes by making good choices for the rest of the day---know that you have that turn-around power. However, can't offer any real advice other than that because this is one of my key issues. Good luck and I hope you find…

I live in a small town with one grocery store so I try to drive out of town to do it. It is just the two of us and we spend $600 a month. Ouch. Debbie :ohwell:

Nice tip Ritalef. You know, all the years I've counted calories and I dont remember how I did it. The type of hamburger really makes a difference on calorie count. Hope you find the solution. Debbie

:heart: Thanks guys--love that this place is active and that you spend a few minutes of your precious time with me. Debbie

Thanks guys, I appreciate everyone that has taken the time out to comment. It is nice to be able to ask questions like this and get answers.