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Ok, I have NEVER In all messages I have shared had this happen. This has taken a bizzare twist. Whatever people. Some of you have been awesome and for that thanks. The others, well, I wished I could say it was entertaining. I am not even going to tackle some of the things raised in here. Its not worth it to me. I did not…

Thanks everyone. For those of you that have lost loved ones too, my heart goes out to you and the rest of the families. That one post that stirs people up, well I left myself open to opinion here and that is all it is, his opinion and I do not begrudge him that though I disliked it. This is my way of dealing with things as…

Thank you everyone. Debbie

I've also seen it everywhere. I figured it was like the rest of that kind of thing. If you try it, let us know how your doing, or rather, let me know please. Debbie

Thanks again guys. Yesteriday marked 2 weeks since Mom passed away. I was also sick yesteriday. I took your words to heart. I had something for lunch (banana--stomach problems) and something for breakfast and I made it home from work with no sign of the shakes. I stopped last night and thought what is the best I could do…

Thanks guys. The reason I came in here besides the exhaustion issue and the feeling of failing to keep that promise is the very real fear of gaining a lot of weight. I didn't get this way (very obese) by only using food for fuel. I don't want to have time pass by and then the realization I have gained 50 or 100 lbs and put…

Ok, I want to thank each and everyone of you guys for the suggestions and the kindness. Some of you wrote here and some opted for personal messages. I dont know why, maybe my frame of mind, but I am just overwhelmed by this outpouring. I was not expecting it but thank you again. I promise to give everyone's suggestion…

thanks guys! I appreciate the help :)

My sister and I are both big women but we still like to go out dancing about once a year together. In Texas it gets really hot so I wore a tank top with a shirt over it but not buttoned. Walked into a bar and there was a group of girls there with a couple of guys. One smarted off, "ohhh who do they think they are??"…

Texas here as well. :) I'm on a very long road with over 100 lbs to lose and I check in most days. Add me if you want to. Good luck on your journey! Debbie

LMAO...people are just crazy sometimes. Get this. I go to this little convience store all the time. I have had many conversations with the guy at the counter. Now, I know I go around in shorts and t-shirts, hair brushed but not fixed up, no makeup--very laid back. One night my hubby who worked out of town was coming home.…

This is so inspiring to me. I have a 136 lbs to lose. Seeing other people do it helps me believe it can be done. Congrats on a job well done!!

One of the things I do is read stories about people who are winning this battle. From stories posted on here to books I buy where people have learned to lose major weight--I use those for inspiration. I also think about what it costs me to keep going down this same path--the consequences are very serious now. I think about…

Hey, Sorry that you are so upset. I only wanted to ask if your objective and really seeing your body the way it is? Maybe take a picture and then look at it as if it is a stranger--see what are the good parts and bad? I do know that binge eating (all my adult life habit until the last few years) and yo-yo dieting does take…

Congrats on a job very well done! Thanks for sharing, needed the motivation tonight. :)

What a great day to see that much progress! Congrats.

Way to go! I love listening to how people managed to turn their weight around. I'm in the beginning stages and I find this inspiring so thanks for sharing. Debbie

I have over a 100 lbs to lose and I LOVE learning how people manage to do this. Excellent job!! Debbie

I see this all the time and parents have a variety of reactions. Try not to judge to harshly, they will reap what they sow. Every child is different when it comes to what works for them. I have raised two kids, one boy and one girl. I used to go over the rules before ever leaving the house. If the kids acted up in the car,…

Yes, like most of the posters I have over 100 lbs to lose, looking at 133 lbs to lose and then evaluate where I am at that time. I have lost and gain and starting over again. My deal is two pounds is all I care about. When I lose 2 lbs then I will worry about the next two pounds. I do not even worry about the overall goal…

Gerrie, Way to go girl, you can really see the progress you have made. Looking forward to getting to know you better. Thanks for the friend request and the note you sent. Debbie

Such wonderful replies already and for those that sent friends request, I have accepted them. So many of the ideas I'm hearing are exactly the types of things that came up when I researched the topic. There is no doubt that mixing the fruits or veggies within the meal is going to be the best way. I do like v-8 juice. Today…

cmcollins---no, you did not miss anything. I have not gone to the denist due to finances and honestly, out of fear. I have never been to the denist as my teeth have always been in good shape until recently. I don't want that tooth pulled and have a gap there either. Thanks guys....loving this. I knew I could come in here…

Thanks guys, some great ideas here. I tend to forget about other snack foods since I am so used to having popcorn at night. Some of that stuff I already have in the house too--great! Funny note: picked up bananas at the store. Came home and after putting everything up, grabbed a banana. My pup Freckles just Knew that was…

More ideas--love this. Thanks! To those that can use this too, awesome! May some of the tips help you or the person you have in mind. :flowerforyou: Debbie

Thanks for sharing these guys. I will now have a long list of alternatives to turn to. Not sure why, but never tied in sleeping issues to depression. I was diagnosed with sleep apnea this summer. I am not bad enough to need a mask though. However, my doctor gave me no help on how to combat this issue other than telling me…

I knew others have this problem and I am now so very glad I asked for more ideas. I only knew of a few things that would help me but there are a lot of ideas here that I know would work for me too. Bless you guys for sharing what you do to get through it. I know that depression can be seen as a personal problem and some…

Thanks to everyone for commenting. I know this is not the real place for putting this out here but venting in writing is more helpful than finding myself raiding the icebox or cabinets for a full out binge. That is the last thing I need to do. Debbie

Yeah it is just frustration talking. If that is what it takes to give those kids a chance then I am all for it. They are just babies and I would hope they would find a home where they are loved and provided for in all ways. Thanks for reading and commenting. Debbie

If this is a jab at me for doing this--you are entitled to your opinion. However, I figured it was better to find a way to vent than to eat through my emotional stress. If this is aimed at my nieces for their facebook comments, it seems some people put everything and some do edit and monitor. It just depends on the person.