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that's kinda what i meant. the more casual stuff...... she could have had a one night stand the night before they met, that probably wouldn't go over very well with matt. my guess is that at his age, he isn't interested in a girl that is casual, OR, he should probably focus on just having sex and not worry about the…

oh i agree that she is weeding out the bad ones. but, MOST guys don't want to know that she has any kind of past. if you know what i mean. it's ok that's she done it, as long as he doesn't KNOW she's done it....... that's why i say she thinks she's doing the right thing by being honest, but in reality she isn't..... he…

my point is that a sick person WILL, however they can. how do you stop a sick person from stealing a gun from someone else? how do you stop someone like my ex that obtained one from a friend? no money changed hands, he had no documentation on it, etc. the night he came into my house when we were all sleeping could have…

if he's just in the relationship for the sex then yeah i would have suggested he break it off too. if he feels like a chump for putting more into it then the FWB, he should break it off. not because of her past, but because he isn't really getting the point of being in a relationship. if he and i had the conversation i…

when ben crossed the line, with his um, toilet pic i left, LOL!

this is actually very true and very real. my ex's entire career up to this point has been for the gov't creating UAVs and making them more effective at killing people. as he puts it to lay people, " he kills people with math." he will always have a job, no matter who he is working for. smarter weapons is his specialty. and…

but that's just it. you can't get guns out of everyone's hands. the sane and insane alike. it's like the example i gave. one, a woman who was insane. she started her day by lacing food with arsenic ( or something like that) and attempted to poison a bunch of frat boys and the kids she babysat for. her next stop was to lock…

i'm keeping my kids home from school tomorrow. i don't think the world is ending, but i have no clue what the crazies out there have planned ;-) we are going to make gingerbread men!!! LOL

ok. thanks :-) i've been on and off for a year. i think that's long enough. :-)

exactly!

you can't stop it. gun control or not. sick people will continue to be sick and will continue to do sick things. and you won't be able to rationalize or explain it or understand it. 3 weeks before i was to start my senior year of high school my friend was stabbed to death on the back stoop of her house. she was one week…

thank you :-)

school shootings have been going on a long time. i was in 6th grade when a women brought several handguns into an elementary school just a couple miles from my house and shot children. ( her name is laurie dann, the school hubbard woods elementary). we were on lockdown because she didn't shoot herself in the school. she…

i say jiminy cricket too! LOL is the pic of you, or an actual midget? if it's not of you, i'd take it as his joke to people....... i wouldn't bring it up until he does.

i'm kinda back as of now. it has nothing to do with people disagreeing. it has everything to do with stepping away and not engaging. but, i needed to make sure i made my apologies before i left. i wasn't trying to make a public statement, but i was leaving and had no plans on coming back or ever reading this thread. so, i…

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i have no clue what happened with usedtobehusky, so i can't comment on that. regarding myself and my comments. i own them. i did not one time say that mike is an abuser or reminded me of my ex. i said that he sound just like the Mr RIght in that book. and i only used my ex as examples of a man that believes he is correct…

i wasn't choosy at all in my late teens ( before i met my ex). i had fun with whomever was cute or hot, preferably in a fraternity ;-) LOL for a while my only mode of selection was, he had to be an ice hockey player...... again, had to be cute or hot though. i think had i been MORE choosey, when i met my frat boy ex, i…

oh i'm not shy, LOL! i'm the antithesis of shy. i'll talk to anyone about anything :-) yesterday i had a decently long conversation with a guy in the parking lot of the gym about my car. as he got in his car he said " i've never met a woman that knew something i didn't know about a car." LOL!! so, yeah, i'm not shy. not…

another question for guys i suppose. what do you do with the girls that you wink at, or mark as a favorite? what is supposed to happen there?? thx

ok, gotcha! do you always message girls you're interested in the first time you look at them? oh, and i'm not messaging him. i don't message guys. i was just curious what other people would do. :-)

LOL! i'm already NOT that person, which is why i'm asking YOU what YOU would do :-) not what i should do. i do not message guys. period. end of story. does knowing that as of tonight your account is done change how you handle things?? i should have used the general THEY, but i'm a girl so i used a guy and he instead.

so, if you clicked yes to a match, but she didn't message you after looking you over you'd assume she isn't interested, right? would you assume she's waiting for you to message her?

carl, i'm guessing he's talking about me :-) as he keeps mentioning the mr right/ abuse thing. i have no need to hash it out and i don't really care if he chooses to pick on me or not :-) believe me when i say there is nothing mike can do, say, think, scream, type, that can affect me or hurt me in anyway. as for the rest…

Well, some things make my blood boil because I have issues and choose to get upset. Plus, I do have a three strike rule, so he'd get a strike is all.... Lol! Regardless, I would never do something like that :-) so, I wouldn't be in the car headed to a bed in the first place, lol!!!

Don't you dare go anywhere or change anything!! You are perfect right where you are, doing what you're doing!!! Grown ups just need to act like grown ups ;-) neither Gender is superior. And we need each in this world. One cannot continue the human race Without the other ;-) Once everyone has their temper tantrum the dust…

I don't want to hear what you think I want to hear. I want to hear what YOU have to say. I don't filter what I say, and I don't want you to either. Sometimes it hard to hear the truth. But, usually, it helps. Now, if you're calling names, etc that's just not cool!!!

Maybe I'm just really weird then. I don't mind him making dinner Choices, or movie choices, or vacation choices, or chore Choices, or scheduling choices, etc. But I want my way when it comes to things like how I dress, what color the paint on the walls is, where I shop, etc. If I want to breast feed my kids, I will. I…

There is some support behind the ideal man actually being a beta w alpha tendencies. Women might initially be attracted to a true alpha, but after a while he's just jerky and too difficult to be around and get To know. So, males might be better of being confident, comfortable in the decision making role in the beginning…

got my first message with the new profile. my subscription is out as of today, and boy am i glad that this one came through before that ended. i would have been pissed if i signed on for another month just to read this message...... LOL "Hey u I don't u like me" LOL!!!