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that's awesome! YAY!!!
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ok, i think we are thinking of different types of control then. you mean, like take the lead. ask for the date, make the reservation, pay, etc? right? or do you mean, like controlling, he gets to decide what you wear and where you go and who you talk to?
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if you think women want to feel controlled, you need to go back to kindergarten. women want to feel safe. they don't want to feel controlled. they might want a CONFIDENT male, but that doesn't translate to CONTROLLING male. as for the "women want an alpha" comment DMZ made. women want confidence, but a true alpha male…
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i said he REMINDS me of the description from the book. i didn't label him. he wants someone submissive. HE said that, not i....... i was just using my examples to illustrate that when you want someone to submit to you, you rarely think you are wrong, you think you are right. i don't know mike from adam. he could be a…
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i'd bake him something :-)
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you might not fancy yourself that way but no abusive man does. Mr Right has to be right. he has to be dominate, he has to be in charge. HE is the authority in the house because HE IS RIGHT. not because he yells, or uses his fist, but because she caves and caters and he points out time and after time how she is wrong and he…
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i find this funny too, because i'm educated. and while i choose not to toot my own horn, i'm pretty smart. and my ex was always telling me to go strip or work at the place like the bunny ranch..... LOL i'm pretty sure he never saw me as hillary clinton......
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i've said it before, mike reminds me a lot of Mr Right out of my "why does he do that" book on abusive men....... Mr Right, is Mr ALWAYS Right. he keeps you DOWN to make sure he stays up..... my ex was three types of an abuser and Mr Right was one of them... it's nearly impossible to live with Mr Right unless you totally…
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I am just hearing about this, via you Jen on MFP. My kids just got home from school and haven't said a word. So, they must not know either. I was in elementary school when Laurie damn entered hubbards woods elementary school and took out 7 kids. We weren't allowed out for recess that day. And when school ended for the day…
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my cousin finished her doctorate in psychology last year and let me tell you, she's the biggest ditz on the planet!!!! always has been. her husband, is an actuary.......
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i know why i am ( guys, not girls) my ex. he got a master and a phd while we were together and it was absolutely AWFUL! there was a guy that i was into until he said he had two masters and was thinking of getting his phd. IMMEDIATE turn off. i will date bachelor degrees or no degrees but nothing higher than that. it's just…
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i confess that the only part of this elimination diet, i am starting tomorrow, that has me worried is the artificial sweeteners. i have to give up my diet coke..... as in ALLLLL the way. not a single one for 3 weeks. THAT is gonna be hard! BUT, if that's what's holding me back from getting rid of the fat i want to get rid…
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oh i am totally on MFP for the socialization aspect, and i don't hide or apologize for that :-) i spent jan- aug of 2012 tracking food and work outs and i didn't lose any weight, at all. so, when i came back i knew it was just going to be to keep in touch with a handful of friends ( like 10 of them) it wasn't until 50 days…
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Oh I was just Curious Why. I didn't have one up at first Either, but only because It has to be approved :-) He just stopped chatting.....
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That is so awesome! Persistence pays off??? Lol!!!
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somehow the IM me on chat is on and i can't figure out how to turn if off. so, the little window pops open, someone wants to IM. :-) so, i respond and we do the back and forth a couple of times. then i asked why he didn't have a picture... cricket, cricket,cricket LOL!!! and he's gone. guess you're not supposed to ask…
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ok, so, going back in time a bit. remember the guy that i had two dates with, then didn't hear from. then saw him spontaneously on a friday night and got blown off by him on sunday? well, that was two weeks ago. he sent me a couple very short, random texts during the past two weeks. but, we didn't "chat" or anything. he…
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my ex filed for our divorce. i left him the 4000sq ft house and loads of furniture inside. he got all the china too ;-) i did get half of the 401K stuff, but, he was stashing money away while we were married and post separation so, i'm sure he actually had more stashed away than i got in his 401K. and i don't get half of…
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the only real thought that popped into my head is that whole " you can't change someone" thing. if he's messy in the kitchen, he will be that way until HE wants to change. so, if that's always going to bother you either you will have to do something about it, accept it, or move on with your life. if you don't want to ruin…
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LOVE IT JJ!!! thanks :-) you all are so awesome!!! i'll work on some new pics. i forgot my oldest three are going to their grandmas this weekend, so i have to do it today or wait til sun/ mon. thank you, again!!!
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do you like ugly kids??
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i made it few extra pounds. this is why i wish i could do something about my body. i do live at the gym. LOL i worked out twice on monday, once on tues and once today. i took 3 months off from lifting and doing intense cardio, so i have to say i don't feel too too bad about how i look knowing that i didn't lift or do HIITS…
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ok. thanks!
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Ok, this is me right this second, post big dinner ;-)
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Ok, I'll find another :-)
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I just picked an arbitrary number as my Goal. I have no clue what I NEED to lose. I've stopped worrying about pounds lost and I'm focusing On fat loss. So, inches and clothes is my guide. I can put a full body pic up and you all can decide :-)
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ok, clear views-- will do body type-- i don't know what to put.....
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oh i love it!!!!! thank you!!!!!!! xoxox
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Hi! I am a single mom. I've been divorced for about three years. I have a full and exciting life that I would like to share with a special gentleman. I am old fashioned. I believe in taking the time to develop a serious relationship. Some qualities that I believe I offer are that I am spontaneous, very kind, and outgoing,…
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this was my mash up i don't even know what the housewives is......