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even one round can mess you up though. i work in the medical field and i avoid antibiotics like the plague. i have to be dying ( like pneumonia dying) to use them. same with my kids. in fact, i have 5 kids and i think only ONE of them has EVER been on antibiotics........

antibiotics do kill all, including the good bacteria. that's why probiotics are SOOO important when taking ANTIbiotics. the good bacteria in your gut get killed off ( people often end up with nasty diarrhea after a round of antibiotics). antibiotics are also the reason for yeast ( fungus) overgrowth in your body. you can…

so, both of you ladies are totally ok with the idea of 98% of the men you come in contact with just sexualizing you? having no intention of dating you or getting to know you, or ever wanting a relationship with you? you're ok with having to weed through ALL of that to find ONE person that doesn't immediately ask for dirty…

interesting. i have googled people i've really hit it off with. but never thought about searching for a "past". yeah, i don't know about the whole asking if that's really him part......... i might just back away from all of that drama, or potential drama.

i believe it starts at a VERY young age too. my son is obsessed with mine. my girls were too at his age though........ . now, they just stare at them and wonder if theirs will be as big...... LOL!

i don't know :-) my profile pic here was one of the online dating pics. and then i have one where my hair is straight and you can see there is a kid on my back. another is of my feet and the beach and ocean. and one is with my hair curly but pulled up, standing under a huge green plant. that's all :-) so, no clue!

no he made it clear he wasn't interested in going on a date after i LOL'd and said no :-) with a smile on my face. i wasn't about to chase him down either...

no HE canceled the date because *I* didn't send him pics......

i totally don't think like that. and never on the fly. maybe i'm just awful at all this dating stuff. that is entirely possible :-) i don't do much to make people think i'm available OR interested, LOL!!!!

oh i know i cant' control what they say :-) but, that's mainly what i get so, it's discouraging. PLUS, if you were in my shoes you MIGHT feel a little differently about it....

the online guys have ALL been older!!! most over 40 some over 45!! i literally have a million stories just like this. one guy i was supposed to have lunch with, he was 45. we had spoken a couple times, etc. and i told him i need to jump in the shower quickly. his response was " well, make sure you take a topless pic when…

i got that here, and NO i didn't have pics that showed below my neck line, LOL!!! jen, my response to the guy who canceled the date was " i don't move THAT fast ;-) " and he pretty much was like " see ya!!" and yeah, i could have chosen my words better with this other guy. i know i asked him " do you mean after a date…

i don't show cleavage. my tops are cut high. i often even wear mens tops to avoid any chance for cleavage, LOL *** see my shirt in my profile pic!!!! i am not demure or snobby. i'm filterless and whatever thought comes into my head, usually falls out of my mouth :-/ maybe i need to work on being demure ;-) i'm done with…

online they can't even see them, unless they are a member here, LOL!!! i learned early on i can't have any pic that show my top half. just a couple days ago i got like 8 messages from a guy here, about my boobs and my nipples and how hard and perky they are and how perfect they are, etc. when i first started online dating…

oh i know you're right, but how do i become the girl that gets asked out on a date instead of the girl that gets sent c0ck pics? or asked for dirty pics? or IMMEDIATELY have the conversation turned to sex? i want to be the girl that gets asked out, not turned into a sex object. so, fine, that they approach me because of…

i love boobies, but i am beginning to hate the fact that i have them. i'm sick of married men messaging me here because i post them. i quit MFP once before ( was r1ghtpath) because it was out of control!!!! today this is an incredibly sore subject for me. i've been dealing with the realization that i have no worth to men…

i used to go to church with a women who works for the CIA. her entire job was training new grads how to TALK without technology. true communication has become a lost art because of our dependence on email, texting, IMing, message forums, etc. i mean, most adults ask people out via texts these days. they don't even pick up…

LOL!!! that would be TOP on my list ;-)

STDs

well, i think i took care of it. we shall see.

when i graduated i got job offers every where i applied. i worked at CHOP, one of the top peds hospitals in the country. i was making 50,000 RIGHT out of school. worked 3 12s a week. i NEVER had an issue finding a job when i wanted to move on. NEVER. there were enough jobs and fewer people fighting over those jobs. even 5…

Hanging out, to me, screams of friends turning into fwb.... I want to date, NOT hang out. As for the financial situation/ convo, I wonder if the reason our current financial state doesn't seem so scary is because of the govt welfare programs, and insured banks now..... There is a smaller risk of finding yourself homeless…

i make sure that i only accept the invite if it is a date, and i'm interested in the person. i've even had conversations discussing our plans and had him make sure we both agreed it was a date...... this last guy, he was one of those. he wanted me to know it was a date. we did talk on the phone several times before we met…

keep in mind, that i don't date often at all. i went on a couple of dates in jan/ feb, and he did not do this. a couple in march/ april and he didn't do it then either. then i didn't go on a single date from may til sept. and in sept i had 3 dates, but two were back to back. he contacted me the night of the first date and…

I don't really bother with him. I respond To his small talk the same I do with my friends from here that I've never met, because I'm polite. He doesn't ask me out, so there isn't some crazy attraction that I can't resist. I'm just curious why he keeps coming back?? I don't give him anything. But, then again I don't give…

there is no spice or excitement though. i mean our convos are rated G and literally are small talk, like me getting a job and looking for a house..... good point about the ration/ irrational though......

well, i replied, platonically..... and never heard back. so, either it was a fishing expedition, spam/ troll/ whatever, or she found another girl to "be friends with" ;-) whatevs......

sadly, there aren't many celebrities that last.......

oh my gosh!!! i say this all the time. you cannot rationalize the irrational!!!!! tell her you are a good friend, but boy talk is now off limits. and then give her this website www.loveshack.org it's a relationship forum ( not sex)

i've read that it takes about one month for ever YEAR you are together. well, you were together 3 months, so maybe divide? maybe a couple of days to a week for every month you were together? in all seriousness, you might need a bit of time before you want to meet someone, but that might not be because you need to get over…