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i didn't read the entire thread, but here is my OWN situation. i will more than likely be totally alone this year for Christmas. my kids will be with their dad. my mom will be in jersey. my dad is in FL. i have friends here, as i've lived here almost 7 years, but unless someone offers an invite i'll be alone. and i a…

safe is WAY different than dependent!!! i need to feel safe, in all things. i won't ever be made to be dependent though!!! not ever again!!!!

there is also research that shows that men won't ask their wives to do certain things because of the woman being their "WIFE." he'll ask his mistress or a *kitten*, but not his wife......

most independent women won't make you duck and cover for that. guys may want to be providers, blah blah blah, but i, for one, have NO interest in EVER being dependent on a guy. i had a job when i married my ex, but stopped working once he had a job and we had a baby. i was dependent on him, for food, clothing, shelter,…

the last guy i had sex with, basically told me i was wearing him out. that he was having a hard time keeping up and right before things went south, actually asked if we could "just spend time together" at some point. LOL!!!! if i go for long periods without i'm fine, but once i have it, it's all i want. which is the main…

my TMI is that you SHOULD and then send me the video! :-)

i went 2.5 years!!! even now, as much as i LOVE sex, i won't have unless i'm actually with the person. so, that adds up to months upon months upon months of just me myself and i :-)

this. from what i've read and been told, this guy needs to be allowed to walk away. if he misses her, he will come back. but, it has to be on his terms and time table...... guys NEED to be able to do this, in order to find out if they like someone, miss someone, want to be with someone ( as in a relationship be with them).…

saying what carl??? i must have missed it :-)

does this ever work?? a guy that is "too busy" whether real or not, i lose interest in them!!!

my guess, is that if you texted him to call you, he's gonna know it's coming...... i'm sorry things aren't working out. i hope it goes smoothly. ((HUGS)) sorry, posted at the same time. ((HUGS))

but you missed my point. ability to run and weight are not always inter related. people that are over weight can sometimes run, faster or better than people that aren't over weight but aren't runners. hence, my example of my friend that is over weight but runs 6 mi every other day or so. she does marathons, and half…

awesome!!! and le sigh :-) LOL!!

(((HUGS))) people can be insensitive and rude! is there any chance you could be pg??? 23 lbs in 2 mo is quite a bit of weight to gain, just out of the blue......... even without working out, just walking on occasion and eating what i wanted i was up about 4 lbs in 6 weeks..... that's why i ask.

those guys were rude! it's none of their biz what you weigh or how your weight affects your ability to run. one of my good friends runs 6 miles every other day, but she's over weight. and her size hasn't changed in all of the years ive known her. so, the running is independent of her size. the friend she runs with, is…

oh i love men that throw me on couches! even if they seem quiet and reserved, i take that as a good sign that things will be "fun" ;-) i have two friends that had all boys. one has 5 and one has 6. i do marvel at that many boys under one roof. but i will say 4 girls is no picnic. the emotions SUCK!!!! i have a confession.…

i was going to ask you if you collect transformers!!!!! because well, i would collect them if i were a guy. i think they're awesome! if i came over to your house i would ask to play with them too :-) they have an exhibit at the udvar hazy air and space museum ( part of the smithsonian but not in DC). that is all about…

you know, i am very open and share quiet easily. maybe more than i should. i think most of my not believing is because i've met a couple people that have lied. and unfortunately, part of my personality is to pick up on the smallish things that could be indicators of bigger things. like for example, the first guy i had…

Dana 36 VA

according to john grey, the mars/ venus guy, THIS is what we are supposed to do ( as women). be polite and friendly if they disappear for a while. that if he comes back, even if it's weeks later, it's a good sign! that men are like rubberbands. they NEED to pull away in order to spring back and get close. and before they…

THANK YOU!! i am so scatterbrained that half the time i'm sure i'm not making any sense. i tend to type like i would talk, and sometimes the conversation in my head just does not flow well to my finger and computer screen ;-) i can't say i get it either. we just such a visual, instant gratification society.........

apparently guys love our thighs more than WE love our thighs!!! because of you ms diz, i am working on LEARNING to love my thighs ;-)

i've had guys make comments about being attracted to a curvier figure, larger breasts and backside. the more "motherly" type figure i guess you could call it. even if it is just a huge focus on the huge boobs. i take no offense, because well, that's the body that i have. and while i don't love my body, i recognize that it…

i read a guys profile once that actually said " if your clothing size is bigger than your shoe size, move along." well, that works if you have really big feet..... but there are women that have SMALL feet. meaning he'd be looking for the teenagers or the women who haven't had kids who LOOK like teenagers...... though, i…

see, i went down a band size, but UP in the cup. so 38 D to 36DD. hmmmm, haven't lost 20+ pounds though. so, true WEIGHT loss could make me lose the girls. i KNOW fat loss will..... cuz well, they're all fat, LOL!! thank you ladies!! i appreciate everyones comments!!!

i THINK, for me, it would depend on the toy. if you were collecting my little ponys and cabbage patch kids, i would have a huge issue with that. if it was something like collectable die casts or models i would be fine. if you're talking big huge toys that live in your garage, i say the more the merrier just so long as NONE…

yeah, i don't want to be the "hang out girl." LOL!! we both really wanted to see one another since it had been almost a week. we did have two dates before that where we went out. it would have been a whole nother week if he hadn't come over. during the week, when i'm kid free he has his kids. so, every other weekend would…

thank you. friday night was actually one of those nights that thankfully worked out. we BOTH had our kids this weekend. and his daughter had to work. so, it was a matter of all of the cards falling in the right places. but, they did. so, he came over. and it really did seem like it went ok...... when he left i didn't think…

i read that book too, and that's kinda how i've always gauged things. this guy, that blew me off tonight. was putting tons of time in. hours on the phone, and he wanted to meet monday night and i suggested sunday, his response was " how about sunday AND monday?" this was friday. he came over friday night and when he left…

i just don't have much time to go out by myself! i'm limited in kid free time. and most of that is spent doing all of the things i can't do with my kids around, LOL!!! i have a house and dogs and what not and end up just getting caught up in life. :-) i went to the movies ONE TIME by myself, and it was fun!!! i would do it…