4themoney Member

i 100% agree with this

personally i would have asked. i had a male friend that was showing me pics of some trails he had ridden and a couple nudes of girls popped up in his pics. i point blank asked him what it was all about, LOL. i'm not going to judge someone for nudes. but i will ask. especially if it looks like THEY took it. i dated a guy…

my day to day stuff ( hair and make up) i do for myself and no one else. i wear minimal make up and i color my hair. sometimes i blow it dry straight but for the most part, it's curly ;-) everything about me ( minus hair color) is real!! that said, i will do certain things for a man ( especially if he asks).

HUGS SB!!! just hugs, hugs and more hugs!!!!

ummm, nope. there was one guy that i think was cute. i met him at the new years eve dance and then gave him my number, to which he ignored. i found out last night he asked out my friend. i will say it hurt....... i was sad. there weren't any other guys that i was attracted to. which is fine. but, he was doing a lot of…

is this outside of your comfort zone?? ;-)

well, i won't be venting this year ;-) so hopefully people will sense that too. i befriend single women and within months, they are a couple with someone. so i never have a single friend long. i have tried befriending single guys and lets just say that hasn't happened either. not to mention i only have every other weekend…

i wish i had your spunk and confidence ;-) i'll go out or do things alone, but not typically to places where men are or where i would meet someone single. 2011, was my best year since 1998. i did whatever i wanted, usually alone. i never met anyone or got hit on, or asked for a number, or got chatted up by someone, but i…

i highly recommend an online story called "clipped wings and inked armour." it is GOOOOOODDDDD!!!!!! ;-) haven't read the 50 shades books. i have zero plans to too.

i don't know if you're being serious or joking, but you did make me laugh!!! ;-)

thanks, bruce!! :-) i probably do use this forum to only vent, but that's because i don't know anyone in real life that is where i am, or gets where i am. i DO NOT have single friends. all of my single friends meet people and end up with boyfriends that they date. i don't have a single friend, male or female, that i can…

tonight, i'm going to the gym. tomorrow, chores and then the gym and maybe to a girlfriend's for a movie ( but i have a feeling she'll cancel on me for a guy....) that's about it. :-)

i agree with the bathroom mirror pics and the laying down pics. but, as for the self pics taken with my cell phone, that's about all i have and can take. 90% of my outings are with my kids. and if i take pics it's of them or them and me. or whatever we are doing. if i do happen to go out with friends, the last thing i'm…

so, men what you suggest as the ideal pictures to post? ones alone? ones with friends? ones where you're out doing something? only bathing suit shots? which are the pics that get your attention? or is it ONLY the face of the person you look at??

no worries. i'm not a lesbian either...... i'm ignoring all of this :-)

i feel the same way!! ;-)

yeah, i know. trust me i know. but, i at least took a risk, right? i think it was kind of like a last ditch effort........ i'm wrapping all of this dating stuff up. so, one last 'hail mary' before i officially quit. i went to a dance, talked to guys that approached me, and gave two of them my number. i figure if you're…

so, i BRIEFLY met two guys face to face over the holiday. i ended giving them both my number and they both shot me down. i am trying to put myself out there.......

are those outside your comfort zone?

i don't mind them. as long as you don't think you're God's gift to women. a friend went on a date yesterday with a guy that had a gym pic up and gave his stats ( which were not ALL that impressive) and then put in his profile that he had "the right to expect a certain type of body on a woman and you'll see why when you see…

profiles that come across as creepy or arrogant. and if they are listed as agnostic or atheist. bad grammer. pics of guys "v" and nothing else.

i went to a singles church dance monday night..... that was WAY outside my comfort zone, LOL!!!! apparently an hour east of me there is a HUGE and i mean HUGE singles crowd. they have events all the time. some dating expert is going to talking to them on saturday. i've been told i need to come to their services on sunday.…

love that movie! and yes, tatas get you messages. not really relationship worthy males, but they do write ;-)

i completely agree with this!!! i have a single friend that just joined my church. she met a guy online back in january. they have casually dated but are more like friends with bennies at this point i think.... anyway, i had the "pleasure" of meeting him on monday night and in person he is NOT attractive to me AT ALL. now…

maybe. if all they are focused on is looks. but, i know guys that didn't choose their partner based only on looks. they took other aspects of her into consideration. ALL of my friends are married, and they aren't ALL top tier. trust me. but, they were considered attractive to their husbands, and possessed qualities HE…

everyone is weird!!! if we were all the same the world would be a very boring place :-)

that's my point :-) you don't have to dress a certain way to attract attention and be considered "sexy" :-)

HAVE FUN!!!!!!

i agree with this line of thinking. i have been told by many guys that i am "sexy." but, i haven't/ hadn't slept with them when they've said it. whatever i am doing THEY think is sexy, i might not agree with them ;-) but, it doesn't change what they are thinking of me. i don't know that i have "sex appeal." i'm not sure…

see, for me, i'd rather you just tell me straight up. you cancel using the kids, i think that you're interested still. and then you wait a couple of days to tell me you're definitely NOT going to be seeing me again. i would not take that nearly as well as if you just called and said that you had been dating more than one…