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This. And this. If its a guy, I'll hold it open for him as I'm walking through. If its an elderly lady or man, I'll hold it open and wait for them to pass through first. If its a young, capable woman/girl, it depends on her comportment. Attractiveness has far less weight than demeanor in this particular scenario.

For reals. Talk about gender inequality... if a guy posted a thread like this for men he'd be labeled a creep or a predator or something worse.

LOL

Bizarre. Any specific changes in foods? Any differences in your macro ratio? Anything specific that you started eating that you weren't previously, or that you replaced with [more of] other things?

How exactly does this work?

The **accent** itself can be very sexy, as long as the speaker is articulate and uses proper English. Even using southern slang/vernacular can be quite charming if done without laziness. I've even heard some slow Texas drawls that sounded nice, because the speakers had extensive vocabularies and a very strong command of…

So... you work out for a mere week, while eating more than your targeted caloric intake, and you are "frustrated" that you gained weight?

THIS is inspiring. KO'ing such a daunting goal in a year and then *immediately* setting the bar higher than most people who've never even struggled with weight-issues makes you a certified badass. Kudos to you.

"Metamucil: it helps you go to the toilet. If you don't use it, you'll get cancer and die."

Yes you can :) If you are overweight and have a high body fat percent to begin with, you certainly can grow muscle while at a caloric deficit. You can do this with intelligent weight training while consuming foods that are conducive to muscular hypertrophy. If you're not consuming at least 1g of protein per pound of body…

It really sounds like your curves aren't the problem. If you were actually honest and forthright about your body type before meeting, and they still [enthusiastically] agreed to meet, then obviously they're *not* attracted solely to "petite, super thin girls... every time". They obviously expected one thing and were…

Right on! If only all women were this honest and forthright...

Here, I'll solve your problem for you: 1. Stop posting misleading pictures. If you want to meet people in real life, then use recent, accurate pictures. A beautiful headshot that disguises your bodytype is not accurate--its a lie. If you're overweight, and your picture doesn't reflect that fact, then you're lying. If…