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I have always heard of this sort of thing. (been in 10 years) I am sorry you have had to go through this. Is there anyway you can get out of the mortgage agreement? Have you gone to the HAWC to speak to a dietician? I think the weight around the middle is all about food although running helps. Stess and depression are my…

He just wants me to go to bed so I am sleeping when he is sleeping. He acts like if he goes to bed it means bedtime for me too. Only he can stay up late apparently.

WoW lost my support with the latest patches and expansion. It is dead to me. haha

This is probably very true. I am always pushing for him to have friends and a social life, but he would be happy if I never left the house or talked to anyone. Ugh. The issues. haha I love him so much, it is just this kind of thing that drives me crazy.

No doubt. He and I started our flirting on WoW haha. He plays online rpg's and such. Still....he is extremely faithful. I even tried hooking him up with a female once because I had this crazy fantasy. I know. TMI. Sorry. No dice. He would seriously rather play games for hours and "defeat the enemy". He knows that he could…

Roger that. I will discuss it with him in detail (minus MFP) tomorrow and see if he can not be a jerk about it. Tune in next time. :)

Sweet! I am somedbody now! haha

lol yep. Don't want to get too dirty on here, but I tend to "service" him while he is playing before I go to bed. If I stopped that he might come to bed. haha Doesn't change the fact that I should be able to stay up and enjoy my evening from time to time. It isn't fair.

Yea he drinks every night. Thanks to everyone btw. Just talking about it makes me feel less pissed off. I was almost guilted into coming to bed, but I tried to hold my ground tonight. Finishing my episode on netflix.

I watch more porn than he does. lol

Hilarious :) thanks hehe

I can see your point. That isn't the case though. He is legitimately a nerd. He plays online games and drinks. If it was something suspicious I wouldn't be as upset because then I would have something to understand and work with, but this is just plain stupid. haha

That is a good idea.

We have been married a year and a half.

He knows or should know I am on MFP and Netflix. Diligently re-watching heroes. haha

Yea that is why I am upset. I just don't understand his logic on this one. It is just plain mean. I tell him to have fun and come to bed when he is ready and all I get is "oh, I see you are too busy to come to bed with your husband. Your more important life on the computer"

For sure! haha

haha no. We have no problem in that department and he knows how to communicate that. This was "throwing a fit" because I was going to stay up without him.

He just made grunts and shut the door :/ So annoying.

I am sure your point is valid. I will not argue with you, except for this.... Men and women differ in muscle building. I don't know anything about you, but most guys I know have jobs and life styles that demand enough from their core that they have that "six pack" hiding under their fat if they don't have the diet to…

No problem. The only reason I know anything about this is because of my trainer haha. I still have a long way to go. The forearms planks are a challenge be prepared! :) Squats are great, but I throw in some walking lunges. Put the barbell on behind your head on your shoulders and walk (lunge) accross the room and back as…

That isn't true. I use to weigh 95lbs and I had a very undefined core. I thought I was fat with that pinch of fat I could get. Oh stupid me. Now am actually fat. Anyway. Losing the fat is awesome, but it doesn't reveal that awesome muscle layer if the muscle isn't ready to be revealed. If she works on muscle now, that bit…

Are you doing the planks where you put your forearms on the ground? They will not put pressure on your wrists or hands. Hold a forearm plank and reach out with your right arm. Set it down. Reach out with your left arm and put it down. Slow, controlled. If it isn't slow and controlled you will get there. Then. ... bring…

Nope I have a lot of weight to lose, but....... I use to weigh a lot less and never ever worked out. I was light, but didn't know what "firm" felt like. I workout a lot now and even though I have plenty of pounds to lose I am noticing HUGE changes in my muscles. I feel almost as small now at 159 lbs as I did in the past at…

Not a military one. I have been in the military for 10 years. We don't test like that.

No worries. You will get there. Not sure if it is an option for you, but I highly recommend a personal trainer. If not....try some fitness classes. A wide variety of them. My goal is 18% and I am like 34% right now. I started at 37% So you are closer than you think. Work up to running 30-60 min at a time. Try that 100…

I got a personal trainer. On one hand I invested a lot of money. On the other hand my husband would have killed me if I spent all that money and didn't put it to use. I put those two hands together and went to the gym all the time. Now I hate not going.

Indeed

In that case I am glad he is your ex! My husband is always telling me I am sexy and beautiful. I try to just appreciate it becasue deep down inside I really want to argue with him about it. haha I would FEEL more sexy and beautiful if I lost the weight. When I was skinny guys use to hit on me all the time and now.....well…

Well considering my doctor offered the Topamax I don't think I will need much luck. Thanks for the feedback though. I have been working out 4-6 days a week for over 4 months. Personal trainer 3 days a week and my own workouts the rest of the week. 60-90 minutes sometimes more. I also love every vegetable there is and eat…