delaniecastillo

Mediation (from the cops) and actually able to see the kid. File a report in his town and show that she made effort to see her son. Again, I'm in Texas so things may fly differently. Every state is different and every judge sees things differently. I had a friend who had his daughter kept away (and he paid child support)…

So can you not make a trip out there and call the cops when you are in front of his residency?

If the kid can tell the mom that he does not want to be with her, he is not incoherent of his surroundings. Maybe he has Asperger's or maybe she just thinks he has autism. Again, so vague.

No clue on state because she is vague as hell. And you're right but a judge can award 50/50 or full custody. She hasn't had the kid for a year. Right now, Dad is looking like he is doing something decent if he has someone (or himself) homeschooling the child and under care.

So why are you worried about the full custody thing? You show up, tell the judge your side and take your son home.

Then you have to add that the fact that she knows that he is homeschooled. Which means he is home all day WHICH ALSO MEANS if she finds out their address, she can call the cops while she is waiting outside the house so she can at least see her kid. I dunno about other pregnant women but I am pretty convincing to cops to…

No one is calling you a dumba** or saying you don't love your kid but you really aren't making much sense regarding the story. I think most are trying to help but there isn't enough info. Is there anything in your past that your ex has on you to possibly get full custody? If not, then you should be golden. Let him take you…

I imagine he doesn't want to go home after being a year with his dad. No matter what circumstance, usually they will rather just stay. And yes, it is so vague. Too many holes trying to figure out the whole story.

Is this your first child that he has? I understand you are currently pregnant but do you have other children that he might say that you are not doing enough? My only thing is if the child has a disability, where will he get the best care? Also, usually dads do not get custody unless they can show pretty good evidence of…

Oh, I'm a big ole girl. :D

Obviously, take him back to court for back child support. Don't stop. Is there no family or relatives that can help with a retainer for a lawyer?

Creepers gonna creep no matter what you are wearing. Carry mace. Next time he shows up, ask him if there is something he needs then SPRAY HIM LIKE A SKUNK.

Great job! Zumba changed my life too! Helped me lose 50lbs before my last pregnancy and so far 53 after! I am an instructor (but on a break until I hit my 65 goal) and I just love hearing stories like this! Now I am adding strength training and lifting along with my Z-cardio 3x a week. Keep on keeping on! You are doing…

I thought your profile pic was asscheeks. I had to double-take.

Just fart a good protein fart. Keeps the creepers at bay.

Methinks there is more to this and not an easy case which is why a lawyer would not want to get involved.

That too.

State Attorney general? Maybe if you get child support going then maybe custodial rights would also play a part as well. Other than that, not too many lawyers want to work for free nowadays. Maybe you can try and work out with a payment plan with one in your area.

Can't see anything.

Off by 3 pounds! I am really good at weight guessing though because I do it daily.

QFT, lol Between 3 kids (one a 4mth old), gymming, work full-time, and more? lol Right now, I am trying to get my energy back up.

I think he was going after the whole "I love Advocare meal replacement shakes" part. Honestly, if there was some "get skinny fast"weight plan that was surefire to work, we'd all jump on that boat. I know I have tried every single one of them. There is something about actually learning to eat right (portion control),…

I can lump them how I pleased if I have tasted all of them. They taste horrid. Vi is all "OMG, it taste like cake batter!" I don't want to eat cake batter shakes. They made me gag. Herbalife wants you to add all their mumbo jumbo pills, Advocare adds shakes with a cleanse and Spark (though this stuff tastes doable but…

You've smoothed out a lot so I am willing to bet that inch-wise and LBM are you main hitters than weight. Honestly, I want to drop weight but as long as I look good and get smaller, the scale doesn't have to move to me.

Okay, I am being honest because the pic is kinda crappy: Judging by your hips and huge knockers and you look around 5'5ish? I am going to with 172. Again, your posture seems a bit off and the pants kinda throw it off. It would have been easier with another outfit? I'm a bigger girl and have to guesstimate weights so if I…

Yup! This is the best example. I have basically go by the size of my palm. and when I go and weigh it, It is just a little shy, on point, or just a little over.

Don't waste your time or money. I have done all the shakes, potions, lotions, and snake oil and guess what? I gained it all back over time. You know what worked? Counting my calories and moving my butt. Herbalife is crap. And honestly, you want a meal replacement? Go to GNC and get their stuff. It at least doesn't taste…

I'm just gonna sit here with my glasses and smile. :glasses:

Awesome job! Do you know how much body fat you lost and LBM that you gained? I am on this program a bit modified with my trainer and so far so good.

Does porn count? :glasses: I've been told I am a cross between Janeane Garofalo, Sara Ramirez (Calli from Grey's Anatomy), and Rosie O'Donnell's lesbian child.