sarahz1442 Member

I'm 5'4", but close enough. SW: 140 GW: 119 CW: 106 just kept going for no particular reason even though i think i was eating a lot. hopefully i stop here.

lol

wasn't drunk. why do people keep asking the same idiotic questions? i'm not going to dignify this same question with an answer yet again. read the thread and see my answer for gods sake.

well, I wouldn't consider justsomerandomgirl's before pic as skinny fat. She was just skinny. she seeme to be using her pic as an example of going from skiinny fat to muscular, but i think that her calling her before picture as fat in any way is kind of offensive.

nothing wrong with not being muscular. i'm not sure why we need to invent a derogatory term for it. back in the 70's women weren't muscular and that was fine. now it's like if you're not muscular there is something wrong with you and you're skinny fat. insulting. we can't just accept the beauty of all types of bodies…

yep. the term skinny fat is so damn offensive.

who are these "most"? i'd say that only idiots actually think that. i'd like to think of myself and other women as not being idiots. i don't lift cause i'm lazy, not because i'm afraid of getting big. i have no muscle tone to begin with. some bulk would be nice, but seems unlikely.

If I saw an avatar of a male model, I would never contact that person to hit on them. creepy as hell. I would also assume that there is a very good chance that it's a fake pic.

how exactly am i creepy? i don't flirt with anyone and completely ignore the dumb pm's telling me that i'm hot. again, look up the definition of creepy. this ain't it. and as i stated before, not just the men being creepy. it's around 50/50. definitely a lot of women too. no, i did not think about whether i'd find creepy…

weird possible, but still a female.

those were my thoughts too. i doubt that the girl in the avatar would appreciate all the attention either.

no, i'm female.

I'm in the first picture I found that I like camp. Nah, I'm pretty attractive actually. That's not why I don't have a picture of me. I'm not as hot as the avatar, but few people actually are that hot.

why would I own up to something that isn't true? Can you read my mind now? WOW, CAN I HAVE YOUR POWERS?

I didn't expect people to be both creepy and stupid. I don't see how anything I'm doing is creepy. I'm not contacting anyone on this site to flirt with them. I am just going about my business and the creepers come at me. As I stated, I chose the photo based on another site I am on all the time where everyone is anonymous…

Strange site to do what? I wasnt looking for attention based on the looks of the model. I randomly picked a chick from the internet as my avatar, so not sure what your point is.

"Like" is the wrong word to use here.

I want to remain anonymous. In the internet forum I come from that's what we do. I don't enjoy the attention. I did not realize I would get attention in the first place. Everyone is anonymous on the forum I am most on and some use hot chicks. Nobody thinks it's actually them. I underestimated just how supid and creepy…

uh yeah, it's not me. the constant pm's telling me how hot i am are creepy as hell. i'm not sure why idiots on here just assume that's me to begin with. it does give me some insight into the buill**** that super hot people have to go through in life though. i would imagine that for super hot people, the constant creepy…

ummmmm, I don't punch men in the face to begin with. if a girl does, yeah she does deserve to be punched back.

well, as long as you're both on the same page, seems okay. one night stands are just a completely foreign idea to me.

well, you might happen to know her, but i don't. so i don't think that giving a blanket statement saying that she deserves better shows any more common sense than someone who doesn't.

how do we know that she deserves better? we don't know anything about her and what she deserves.

Did you hurt the person who you were cheating with at all in the process? NOT ALL ABOUT YOU AND YOUR S.O.

This sounds like such a terrible idea to me. It could only work if the person you are cheating on never finds out and you have no lingering guilty feelings thus hurting the relationship and also, it's not nice to use the person who you are cheating with. The other person has feelings too. It's not just all about you. If…

my parents stayed together because my grandmother wouldn't have approved of them getting divorced. they didn't even pretend that it was for the children. the for the children reason is such bull****.

yeah, probably. some people just get more emotional about it than others i guess. i probably fall in the emotional camp, but when i think about it some more, the cheater is not evil. in most cases, there isn't any evil intent with what he/she does. it's just human weakness.

oh and the o.p. is obviously far from happy right now.

People who say this are probably thinking back to someone who cheated on them and are emotional and bitter about it. Doesn't mean the person is truly evil.

yeah, cheating is always wrong, but doesn't mean that the o.p. didn't do things in the marriage that are just as bad or worse.