totalsham Member

you are on point. you didnt miss anything. all here are bashing me for 1 word and supporting someone (author) terrible life choices while making every excuse for the behavior.

Its amazing how many in this thread are blaming the medical teams that she had at her disposal for her condition. How their uncaring and hurtful words have led this poor woman down a path of ruin. is a joke...

truth!

.... ok

i assume you know what open heart surgery cost.... how about EVH? or how much a single cath angiogram cost.... or stents... plavix... how about 3 weeks in a icu sedated on propofol cause you had an event? i could go on for days and i am doubting you have all in your rainy days savings account to cover that.

Weight gain is common for those who have experienced traumatic experiences. It's not uncommon for rape victims to turn to food to make themselves "unattractive" so they won't be victimized again. She's not dealing with her ****, and she's justifying her bad behavior as being a self-esteem thing. So no... words didnt like…

yes a word did all this to her.... not her own personal choices

first things first.. 1. she isnt in my office or in front of me. 2. if she was, her view of me is already tainted before i even open my mouth.

] Look at me, im the bad guy! lol the baddest guy you'll ever see! thanks for seeing it bro, but they want me to be the bad guy... Imagine the author... the fragile shell of a person she is now, diagnosed with anything related to obesity to pile on her. how will this help her as a human?

well sir, you are disgusting, here is your bill smh.... cause thats what medical providers do????

to the numerous posts above on this part of the author.... her is my reply The therapist wants her patient (the author) to get down to a weight which won't lead to additional health complications. I'm confident that the therapist realizes the author has a lot of body image issues, based on their personal conversations and…

epigenetics.... if you cant watch more then 5 seconds.... 4:30 on http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kp1bZEUgqVI

someone didnt google epigenetics

yes... cause posting on a forum = how one gives quality of pt care.

truth!

She is just rationalizing her unhealthy decisions. Not being obese will help with her psychological problems and will actually make her feel better, not worse! It's clear that being lazy is a priority in her life though. That's fine, people rationalize all sorts of stupid **** they do and it's a standard coping mechanism.…

Yet she let her mental issues taint the view of her doctors advice. You should lose weight is obviously going to alleviate all of her health issues be it hurting joints, body pains, being tired, feeling depressed!!!! not to mention all the ones everyone here know regarding cardiovascular issue, breathing issues and cancers.

titles do have a limit to how much i can express....

this is how i feel as well. while im not done with my journey of weight lose and health gain, i do feel so much better than i did in feb

read thread you're welcome!

another one.... read whole thread next time before "judging"

truth

read thread. i stated what i felt numerous times.

so you think my disgusting is about the obese part eh? interesting Edit: grats on that weight lost! im happy you took your health in your hands and took care of it!

i posted why in these forums. health.

lol i so agree with you on this... but i think thats just another topic for another day. It isnt even a long story. in fact i say what i posted is a short story, but its just too long for them!

judging... really? :facepalm:

shes only has healthy blo0d work cause she is 23.... that wont last long id she doesnt change her eating habits.

i feel you on this... but... her "fat acceptance" is a just adolescent take on being ok with yourself. It is immature and self-destructive. Instead of this chick, you know who us overweight people should paying attention to? Adele. She was defiant and vowed to never diet or bend to social pressure. Then she had a baby and…

yes ma'am. Her unwillingness to get health is a burden. It affects her performance at wok, in relationships, with her family. And yes.... we all pay into the health care system. Obesity is the major cause of all CVD and cancers.