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Well, I don't like his comments because they do hurt. But they sure do motivate me too. I know that's not healthy motivation though.. In the back of my mind I still can't help but think it was 85% trying to be motivating and 15% "Man I sure hope she keeps working out so I can show her off and make X&Y jealous." He is a…

Thank you sincerely for your replies! It's so helpful to hear other perspectives about this! :) @throoper -- No, I have not mentioned to him about my past disorder... we're still fairly new in our relationship and I didn't know if that will scare him away... I have told him that I can get very methodical and dedicated with…