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WOW!!!! What a sucker he is! How long do you think she had known this new guy? (ie - you don't give the time frame that you've been apart). Thank your lucky stars! I can't believe someone would ask for help with bills after 3 months! I'd have a hard time asking after 3 years!

I'd certainly run out of room in this text box ;P I do get myself in trouble frequently!

Loved this reply! Lots of great points. You will get there..... I don't care to mention how many sleezy d-bags I had to go thru until I realized I had to put more worth and value on myself and stick to my boundaries no matter what BS I was fed. Now I am happily in love hehe!

Good job! I really believe that being 'stuck' or in a 'plateau' is because your body has become highly awesome at whatever you are doing :) Switching it up would be the thing to do!

I have learned over the last while to take man's words at face value. There is nothing 'between the lines' so to speak. I would take it as he misses you, but it sounds like with his attraction and the distance you have had that he wants some physical attention too - whatever that may be.

I don't believe this to me true for all men. I was highly played by someone who acted the same way - and admitted it - once he got what he wanted he dropped me like a hot potato.

Agree 100% In my reply I started to list off all these red flags then didn't.....

Great!

Been there, done that... guys will lie and talk you up to get anything they want (I am sure girls do it too).... What I have learned is a few things. Stick your boundaries and your values (ie don't have sex when he is ready but when YOU are ready, etc.) and if he hangs around you can see his interest in you or not. Be…

haha wow! he's a winner, you should take him up on that offer :P He is totally not over his ex, and has no confidence in himself... yikes I have WAY WAY WAY too much to list on here, but I will humor you all when I have a minute.. gotta head out.

oops! but if she looks better and the first date wasn't a major fail, then why not try again? I have had plenty of duplicate messages from men, but not from ones I have met before.

I think it's different for everyone...especially depending on what people are looking for out of the other person. Over the last couple years of dating and the crap I've encountered I've learned to never assume. With my current boyfriend of 3.5 months we had the discussion. It was brought up in a goofy manner -- someone…

I am leaving on holidays tomorrow so I will count in who has responded. I am booking at Melrose for 7pm for 15 people. If anyone else wants to go, you are obviously more than welcome :)

I am so sorry to hear this... I would feel as if it was unfair too, and I would be pissed. You have come along way, and you are an inspiration to all of us. If Paul can run it or not, he is very proud of you... and that means a lot to him too!

I'm hoping Asia discovers the same hehe

UMM ok, so... If you wouldn't marry yourself why the hell would you think a man should? If you don't love yourself enough to marry yourself you have a lot of work to do before you worthy of a good man/woman.. Just my thoughts

Love you Anna!

Ohh my... I am assuming these are exact quotes from your profile, and if yes, this is exactly why you don't get a lot of genuine response from good men. You need to cut out the negativity for positive (we have all been played, it's a given no one needs to hear it) Also, you don't need to talk about sex, weed, single…

I agree - I work with a girl who is waiting for marriage and her bf was very supporting of it. They did a lot of other things, and I give her props for being in the moment and not caving to her own pressure (she says her bf never pressures her) I'd have no issues with it, but I'd probably want to know why they were a…

I'd definitely be into getting a group together to do one. I wouldn't want to go a lot because I do have a Goodlife Membership and they offer spin... but I'm in if anyone else wants too :)

Who would give money away .... even $1, let alone $175,0000 ... to someone she has never met!!! Girls got issues!!!

Chantel - yay!! Anyone is welcome.. there will be non MFP people there due to my birthday too! Shannon - I am sure someone could pick you up if you wanted to have a couple drinks. Not like a wild night out, but you know what I mean. We have some time to worry about it. Just throwing it out there. Between MFP and my friends…

Not sure I agree with this. My current bf asked me to be exclusive - well he called me his girlfriend and I told him he couldn't assume I was, so he asked me - and that was after about 1.5 months. It took me off the dating sites, and it progressed our relationship a lot. I don't think it was too early, and I don't think he…

I guess you could say there was a mini dance floor, not sure I have saw anyone use it. We could always start at Melrose for the low key ones, and head out to a club to dance after??

Read all the responses and a couple things I agree with... 1. If you are still in fact hidden and haven't entirely deleted your account then you really have no basis. I mean, you have done the same thing, whether you logged in for gain or to spy on him. (Becky's POF FAQ summed it up, he can see you are online too, etc.) 2.…

I think the issue here is HOW you let them affect you. You seem bitter and angry.... after two years one would think you should be over the bitterness, anger, and resentment... and have moved on and started to work on you. What did I do wrong in this? What is my past experiences as a whole - are there similarities to the…

Agree 100%

yay! that's awesome, Melanie is coming too! Would your boyfriend come?

Agreed!

I do body pump twice a week, and body jam! Once in awhile I throw in Step! I love Attack but it isn't at good times for me, so I don't go much.