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Congrats and love the Seinfeld pic!

245 to 157 lowest weight (gained some over the summer so sitting in the 160's right now) Little swollen in Mexico

I've been in your shoes of disaster after disaster and when I finally stopped and tried to figure out what was wrong with me and actually work on it I was much better off. The process was painful, I bawled my eyes out alot but I look back now at all these men I thought were amazing and I needed in my life (like you) I…

Lol have fun. Don't drunk text like me... Gets you into trouble :)

That's my brother in laws too lol Mine is August 11!!! My boyfriend will be there, so one man forsure ;)

Here is a thought... just throwing it out there.. I am going out for my birthday August 10.. I am going to assume to Melrose. Anyone is welcome to come if they like. Of course there will be my friends there too, and lots of booze. We can plan another time - but you guys are also welcome on the 10!

I am doing the Zombie Survivor 5k race tomorrow - pretty pumped for it. Going to a baby shower, a bbq, and that's about it.

It's a tough one - fat people are no different, they just have a different body size.Maybe there was something else about her that caught his eye -- her smile, her eyes, her presence, her self esteem, her clothing, her personality... When I was 245lbs, and getting back onto the dating scene I thought I HAD to go for bigger…

I am out of town in Kelowna, BC boating and doing wine tours with my boyfriend. Meeting his dad today, eek :) Having alot of fun!! It's going well. Have a great weekend everyone.

Me too! But I am away this weekend, and have a pretty full day next Saturday... What is everyone else's schedules?

bahaha! good one!

I am lost, you said you hooked up with guys, then you said you did not hook up! haha!

I was about to say 'details!' then I realized I wasn't in the mood for too much TMI!! hope he was hot and sexy, and you had fun ;)

I like this! I also like the man who posted about appearing needy and clingy and that pushing him away. another thought I had - you have to appreciate what he is going thru. Yes he isn't there with you but think of this - HE moved across the country, HE got a new job, HE left his family (assuming), HE left you, HE has to…

AHHH yes the butterflies!! The anticipation!!! I like those words better hehe!

What I am enjoying in my current relationship is no need to overthink or overanalyze, etc. I am not sure if it is because I finally found a good fit, if I am in a different mind space, or if I still have some walls up. Sometimes when talking about it, I think 'when is this ball going to drop, this is too good to be true'…

I was just going to say this. I am in, what appears to be, my first healthy relationship and it just flows well, compliments my life, and I don't feel the need to check in, there is no roller coasters, etc.

This happened to me! I went to the doctors and they thought maybe I had ovarian cysts, which I did not. I got it again next month and after putting all the puzzle pieces together I realized it was ovulation pain!!

I have been on Synthroid for 13 years. After I lost 85 lbs I decided to just stop the meds because I had ran out (bad me, as a nurse I should know better). I finally went in and told the doctor what I had done and he made me go for bloodwork. My levels were SOOO out of whack and it took some time to get everything back in…

You guys are all very level headed... I was dumped once, by text, for apparently flirting at the casino while drunk... sensitive much? Oddly a couple days later I got this email.... food for thought - I agree with it... "I'm wondering how many of you out there consider flirting cheating? what are your thoughts and/or…

I would too, and even more so if it is was free! hehe, I get a few things like that free... I get notes in my email about them as I am subscribed to a couple relationship emails.

I wasn't saying men didn't ever bond during sex... what I meant is that women usually develop feelings by having sex with men... men usually can differentiate the two and not 'fall for' women thru sex alone. IE why men can more easily have ONS, FWB, and the like without feeling attached... whereas a lot of women, if not…

Flim, I think there are men who want to move the relationship vertical quickly! I know guys who have proposed to women in 2 months, even 6 months. Generally you don't see this as much I don't think. Maybe they are worried they are running out of time? Does desperation come into it at all? I think in my past, maybe…

I'll admit I never used to fine Ryan Gosling attractive until that movie he was in with Steve Carrell (sp?) Maybe Love and Other Drugs? He's had me ever since lol

1. I would consider a ONS as sex n poof myself but that's me (its like he unspoken permission) 2. You poof while dating? Like real relationships or just the beginning courtships?

I think it depends on the premise of the 'relationship' or 'courtship' to date. I was led in a completely different direction and it was a blindside. ONS and FWB are different. But that being said I have panicked before and almost bolted after sex. Hind site I am glad I didn't.

I'll admit that this isn't me either. I don't give off any good signals when I am not feeling it so for them to think of going in for a kiss repulses me more. To the point I once shrieked out 'please don't kiss me' and fell out of his car. That being said it took me awhile to fall for Asia my current boyfriend -- I wasn't…

I am still not sure I believe FWB is an upgrade in your case... Sex isn't an emotional connection for men like it is for women.. so for you thinking he is letting you get closer, that isn't emotionally closer IMO... just physically... I dated an alcoholic for 9 years, one thing I learned is... you bringing it up will never…

I can see 8-12 months ... Some 'experts' say that men know by 1 year if they see you as marriage material. So if not I guess the relationship would start to break down then?! Just a thought. I made it 9 months with my gambling ex, that's when I was ready for things to evolve more (for us that meant more than 1-2 dates a…

Me too and with respect to marriage but I guess everything.