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What's even more important than a first date, is where you find an all you can eat pizza buffet!

My are like deflated balloons.. I went from a 42G to a 34E.. I am going early June for a tummy tuck consult and plan to get a quote for the tuck and a boob lift...

We are horny single people?? You rawk!

You look fantastic good job!

I'd say you need to eat more too.. Also since you are bleeding so much and don't eat meat, you probably need that iron supplement!!!! I would see your doctor, only they can tell you what is causing it.. but glad you have an appt. becuase it isn't normal. Good luck.

While I tend to agree that needing to lose 40 lbs shouldn't make you average, but maybe a few extra pounds.. I truly believe it is what you weigh... come on, if you weigh 150 (which I think is average) and want to lose 40 lbs to be a stick ... no offense .. you aren't a few extra pounds. I think you need to look at it from…

I've been guilty of using example two (in so many words) with the last guy I was dating... a lot of that stemmed from being played by a man, which as we said here is a big fear for women... but when I read it here, it sounds terrible.. and I can totally see where example 1 seems a lot more feminine, honest, from her…

I have to agree with this...If I was attracted to a man and he made a move on me - even a kiss - I would accept it or I could say 'not yet'... but I went on 3 dates with a guy and I was SOOO not into him and he came in for a kiss and I blurted out 'please don't kiss me' as I was opening his car door and falling out…

Sorry if you feel I offended you.. I realize you are having a crappy time, I have been there a few times recently myself..I guess for me, it feels empowering to say 'he isn't into me' or 'I'm not into him' becuase at the end of the day it has NOTHING to do with your worth or value.. you don't fall short sister... you just…

Awe, I am sorry too! Sounds like you are lucky to find out sooner than later... things like this really show people's true colors. I agree with Anna 100%, just one step closer to Mr. Right for you!

Well said, this is my thoughts and experience exactly... as I said a couple posts above.. I lost weight and thought that would be my 'shoe-in' and alas it wasn't... I did uncover alot of other baggage I have worked on though, so weight loss sure benefited me more than just for my exterior appearance.

I am sorry :( doesn't matter what situation, it still sucks and tugs at the heart (hugs) I agree with all the other posts.... it is great he was upfront with you and didn't lead you on, but on the flip side if he was really smitten for you, him moving wouldn't even be a thought in his mind... he would be sweeping you off…

haha Anna, I do say that I love to laugh in mine -- but that's a disclaimer with my humour. If you can't take a joke, or dish one.. you will be highly offended by my humour :) I am sarcastic with a quick wit to the extreme!

I am not sure I agree.... I have dropped 85lbs, I sit in the 150's (so average) and I didn't get anymore response than when I was 245lbs! Maybe a little bit more, but honestly not really... As I said in an earlier response on this thread, I don't know what the magic equation is :)

In response to your first post, I have had men ask me this. I am really not sure what I said to be honest. Probably something casual, humorous, and very vague! The fact you haven't even met the guy makes me wonder why he cares -- I can see if he met you, was head over heals for you then he wants to make sure he can get…

I wouldn't date a man still married, so I certainly wouldn't buy a house with him!!! In Canada you can be legally seperated, but I think that is all just a bit sticky incase something happened... no thanks... I did buy a house with a boyfriend once, and although we had 'no strings attached' elsewhere, when we broke up it…

I am in Calgary, AB.. anyone is free to add me :)

I think online dating is hard.. I don't think anyone thing makes you get more response than others, or any one site. I am in Canada, and I had no response on Match from decent men... in 3 months I got 1 date and only gross men emailing me. I was on POF and only had one date, and the response was mainly sexual. I have been…

You are looking HOT!!! that's a compliment not to sound creepy lol!!!

I lost 75 my first year... got to 85 and kinda got lax and maintained since last August... now I am going to get back on that horse and get it done. I think it depends where you started weight wise... the first 85 were almost too easy, and now the struggle for the last 10 is HARD!!!

When you do a squat you need to have a lot of tension/resistence on your way back up and force yourself to feel it in the hamstrings, then give your bum a good squeeze at the top.. :) Also, make sure your weight is in your heels...I lift up my toes to remind myself. ETA: and like the poster above me, make sure you are…

edit - nevermind :) I was going away from IBS or Crohn's but didn't make sense.

I sweat so much at the gym I see no point in showering first. When I get up, I wash up the best I can with a face cloth so I don't smell, but generally speaking I shouldn't be smelly anyways.. cause I have good hygeine lol!! I do though put on makeup!

The first time I slept with my ex, I was very cold and distant... it was probably horrible to be around me, but thought that is what I had to do the keep the emotion out.. I then realized, in this case, I didn't want to be with him but I enjoyed that part of it.. so then I just acted/treated him the same way I always had…

We call them wifebeaters in Canada too... definately a cheap white tank top that would be used an as undershirt, usually 'ribbed' in nature.

I've seen/heard a lot being online, but I have never ever received a 'junk' pic, I must have scored a 50+.. waaa am I not worthy? bahahahahaha

I will do this! I am not back from MExico until April 21 evening so will I have enough time to be ready for April 22?

I met a guy back in November that didn't own pants at all.. he only ever wore shorts.

Christine, what type of unit do you work on?

I have thought about this scenario or casual dating on a few occasions... ie - wouldn't it just be easier to have a casual boyfriend without all the expectations, hype, overthinking.. blah blah.... or a FWB, but I don't think I could do it without falling for the guy. I want that emotional connection, I want to be married,…