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Yup, finally found a man who doesn't leave me with questions :) It is just a pleasant experience! one worth letting a so-so man go to find!
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Agreed!!!!
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I don't think I ever realized you were in a relationship! awesome!
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Kim 33 years old Alberta, Canada Dating my bf for 4 months now, met on EHarmony!
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I agree with another poster that maybe it is becuase they liked that independent'ness you had before..I am not sure. I am with tubesocks - I also believe that if the man and women are both healthy and looking for a relationship that one wouldn't be scared away by wanting to spend more time, sharing feelings, etc.…
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I agree with his entire post 100% This one though, says it all IMO. If he needs 4 years, give it to him but move on with your life -- if you two were meant to be you will find your way back to eachother ... if not, you didn't waste 4 years of your life. Maybe, just maybe, when he gets the help he needs he will be able to…
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I am sure there are a lot more people then single men who never change their bed sheets often! I do it about every 2 weeks, more if needed...
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VEGAS!!! Jealous, my favorite place on earth - have fun!! 'whatever happens in Vegas ends up on MFP' right? RIGHT? lol Tomorrow I have my boyfriend coming for dinner, then Saturday working out, kid's birthday party, then possibly going out for drinks. Sunday we are taking the kids to an amusement park.
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Starting weight: 245lbs 18 pants - 2/3X tops Lowest (up right now from being bad this summer) 157/160 6/8 pants s/m tops
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I lost 75 lbs in 1 year, and I started at 245lbs. It's probably doable but you can't have any slip ups! Good luck!
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Sorry this is what I was referring to in the sense you had spoke about it. My confusion. Good luck :)
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You summed it up well :)
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I do read them, and I know the update was from Sunday.... but you keep argueing it.... and now say you are going to talk to him about it but you already did! I am just lost in your reasoning here, so I bow out.
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I don't disagree Anna whatsoever, I would have already decided he wasn't for me and moved on! Everyone has different expectations and what they do in the 'casual' dating scene. You can't expect something of someone if you aren't exclusive and had a talk... but then again if you do expect it and don't get it, you need to…
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This is our case in point - you AREN'T in a relationship but you want what you get from being in a relationship... so you either put up with it until you are exclusive or move on... but you can't have relationship ideals when not in a relationship! ETA: Mind you, alot of men will give you this before you are exclusive - my…
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ME!!!!
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Yes I am quoting myself... I think this is another thing about online dating that can be frustrating.. I think a lot of times people have WAY too much expectation with online dating.....people think because you've found eachother online, because you both want the same things, because you have the same interests, etc. that…
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I'm not saying his communication is fine - I actually said it wasn't something I am ok with, and I told you to move on in my first post. But what I am saying is, when you are dating someone you are only casual until you realize you want more and then at that point you should notice a switch in the way he is towards you…
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I go on dates with everyone with the intent for it to be serious because that is what I am looking for, OF COURSE! but until the time I decide I want more, or he does, we don't owe eachother anything. What exactly do you think he owes you then if you aren't in an exclusive relationship? maybe this is a better way to see…
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I didn't read your whole reply here, but Becky is right. If you have only been out on 9 dates and you aren't exclusive, he doesn't owe you anything.... he doesn't.... sure he has stated his interest and desire to see you more, but you really are only casually dating until someone makes more of it. And you too should be out…
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Nice to see you! A lot of people have good hearts, doesn't mean they are the right guy for you. Sounds like you have exhausted these attempts over the last 4 years and maybe nothing will ever change?!?! maybe it's time to realize that you just won't get from him what you need? I know I sound harsh, but you sound frustrated…
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I agree its *kitten* 'ish and kinda ridiculous... disagree if you will, but they dated a couple weeks back in July - a couple weeks!!!! - and he was falling for her? but then poofed, only to come back and poof again... who falls for someone so quickly, only to leave them hanging? If he really was feeling said emotions he…
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Agree 100% - well said! I also agree with Mud - I am well over second chances. None have faired well for me. My gut knew right the first time. Also to dbrightwell - agreed on why are you letting this guy occupy you?!
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I have been on Synthroid for like 13 years. When I changed my eating habits (ate at a deficit for weight loss) and started to exercise I had no problem losing the weight. I had been down 86lbs, but then I got slack and find myself at 75lbs lost....soooo what that tells me is I have to be good for the rest of my life or it…
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I agree with this...
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Agree! I also feel believe that there is more the just one of 'the one' for you because if you could only meet one person a lot more of us would be sadly single searching for this being. But that doesn't mean you should just stick it out with anyone and be miserable. yes relationships take work, but it is 50/50... and…
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I actually agree with a lot of this... Not saying he is a d-bag though. If you go back awhile in the threads I posted numerous times, and we had some good debates, over how much communication is necessary and how should people communicate. I dated someone just like you are mentioning. He wouldn't text often, he would drop…
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My current boyfriend has a lot of female friends and he says that his bff is a girl. They talk a lot, he talks about them, he visits them when he is back home and it doesn't really bother me. I guess I have enough trust in him and confidence in myself that I don't worry about it. Mind you, if they lived here and he hung…
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Mail order brides is what I say :)
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Even at 6 months that's really quick! I mean I know people happily married who moved as fast, but like you said if she just had invited you to the concert it must be fairly recent. She ruins it all for us good ones!
