bigredhearts

i feel this exact way. ive even gone to the point to where ive repeated, and even more rudely ask them to discontinue their current chewing behavior, or else :)

I can do this too! :P and i can wiggle my ear, yes i said ear. only the lefty wants to wiggle :)

<---- had previously had extremely low self esteem. Been working to reverse that thinking :smile:

you look amazing! way to be dedicated and get great results! :drinker:

^ THIS!!! p.s. you looked fab from the get go and you look fab now!

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whether or not you are b*tch about the issue, is not my place to say. i dont know where your feelings come from, and if they come from a negative place, those are your feelings to deal with. however, if shes lost over 100 lbs after the surgery, chances are she NEEDED the surgery. maybe her health actually needed a quicker…

[/quote] Tell everyone to shove off, you're adorable [/quote] ^ this!!!

lol i was jus thinkin that!

totally remind me of kelly clarkson!

its kind of an assumption to say that my question is any sort of obsession... but, i guess if thats how you look at it, to each their own :happy:

right?! lol... i would be ok with the free drink and then the realization :) lol... or even just for dudes to stop actin like im freakin poison lol

if you think i appear to be upset you must have read my question in that tone of voice. im not competative at all actually, much less about dudes. ive never had to worry about that. im not sure how you got that exactly... but no offense taken. :)

lol i see your point, but im not the girl in the corner, i am very social, thats the part that confuses me. and im not trying to get hit on, i just think its odd that men at the bar who dont know me wont even try to strike up a convo with me, much less buy me a drink...

well thanks to everyone who gave their input, ive come to the conclusion that its possible this happens in real life but chances are its not what every dude is doing. cheers :drinker:

LOL maybe...

well that is a compliment! and this makes a lot of sense...

lol being a red head is one of my hubbys fav parts of me! lol and i dont mind being talked to as long as the dude dont spit some rediculous line at me... lol... cause otherwise its just conversation to me but i cant even get that lol... so maybe, they r a little scared haha

taken or not its still confusing when the bar is the only place i dont get hit on or talked to, unless its a friend, dudes tend to steer clear. and it was a question to see if the hubbys idea actually happens in real life...

thank you, and thats a very good tactic to have. its best to make sure a woman wouldnt regret a decision for sure. i dont call that cheap, if you are looking id say its a very smart move.

lol that sounds like one dedicated dude!

its not bad really, so much as just something i have a hard time understanding. and i wouldnt mind the conversation every now and again, i like to talk to lots of people and guys and girls offer good conversation. not to mention not having to buy my own drinks all the time would be a small plus, even the ONE guy who bought…

now that i think about it, the hubby doesnt get hit on much either, but him more then i...

it was mostly for guys but i bet that women could do this too, not sure how well it would work but i cant imagine it being out the realm for a chick :) that book sound interesting, so my hubby may not be entirely wrong, though i think in his case to say thats why all guys ignore me is a little unfair

^ this makes sense, and in that thinking my hubby thinks all men at the bar are players, which also makes sense... lol

see this is what i fig, that most dudes, if they are trying, are gonna try whether shes in out or of their league. thats why it makes no sense that i cant get hit on when i go to the store to by gum but not by a one of 30 drunk dudes in a bar, its like its the twilight zone for me lol and the hubs and i are both surprised…

my girlfriends think this about me... cept one last night said i might just be too pretty, lol, but then again she had a few to drink lol

see i do all that, except the eye contact unless im walking passed them... and thats just cause im there to have a good time with the ladies, not there to get picked up, tho a free drink every now and again would be fab lol

i cant speak about the out of their league part (as that is a matter of opinion) but the success part makes more sense... glad to see at least two people who dont practice this :)

i figured my hubby was just trying to be nice, but at the same time it happened again last night so i had to ask...