moya_bleh Member

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A curvy figure and large breasts - there, I said it! *hides*

Pretty much this. The weight gain/loss is not the real issue, it's the attitude behind it (see bolded) Likewise if somebody uses the "You should love me no matter what card" in the case of neglecting hygiene, quitting a job or reducing hours to play video games on the couch all day because 'their income will support us…

What do doctors know anyway? They're just hiding their 'fatphobia' under the guise of medical qualifications /sarcasm

You obviously haven't read the work of Virgie Tovar, Marilyn Wann, Ragen Chastain, Kath Reid, Lindy West or Jes Baker.

I would certainly expect a partner to tell me if she didn't find me attractive anymore as a result of my behaviour. In fact, I wouldn't be so contemptuous of my partner to think "Ha! Gotcha! You can't leave me, you'll look like a shallow *kitten* if you do. Chris Farley mode......ENGAGE!! MWAHAHAHAHAHAnomnomnom!" in the…

If anybody lets themselves go in any manner (not just weight gain) then one's partner certainly has a right to bring it up in conversation. Unconditional =/= Mandatory.

As human beings we are all ready to be treated properly by default!

I couldn't - way too young!! :(

I confess that I can't stop peeing since upping my training and dropping my calories back to post-Christmas normality. I'm going to need a catheter at this rate, I guess that this how fat leaves my body!

Merseyside (and no, I won't steal your hubcaps) Add me! :)

Ignore button if you don't like it, just as I've just put you on ignore.

I confess that I've just finished a fantastic shoulder session, using others hatred of me as fuel for motivation. Wonderful!

Lifting, running, eating less crap, drinking less beer.

Happy Birthday!

Thank you.

I wasn't being snarky, I just want to feel attractive. My ugliness and women's hatred of me because of it has led to me believing that the world would be a better place if I wasn't part of it anymore. The ultimate irony, the only way to get women to like you is to be dead. This sucks.

Who loved my beard pic? Take your reply: "Nice to see you smile" (my pic) vs. "drool" (virtually every other guy's pic) There is nothing physically attractive about me at all. **** this world.

I confess that these forums are really making me feel like *kitten* about myself. I notice that whenever ANYBODY else posts any kind of progress pic/selfie etc. they get some kind of "How YOU doin'?" type response. I get tumbleweed, confirming that I am indeed physically repulsive. Time to crawl under a rock.

Obituary

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlsC7lJbofc

Entombed

Listening to W.A.S.P.

Hours evaporate.

I don't know your story, but I can say that I've been where you are now and I'm still not in a good place. Please keep going, tomorrow's a new one.

1. Chapel Street, Liverpool. 2. *CLASSIFIED* (might be a bit NSFW!)

From the Wirral. Feel free to add me :)

Ouch! Got any hand sanitiser? (yes, we use a S rather than a Z over this side of the pond!) I confess that I'm feeling a lot more positive about things today. Looking forward to getting my body back as well as getting my head down and making money in work.

Resi 7. Oh my!